Barely Legal
**An earlier post from another place**
captive (pic by DarlingEvil)
The negotiations officially began yesterday.
DarlingEvil found a submissive for me to dominate (physically and sexually). For those of you not following here’s the situation.
DE has a fantasy of watching me Dominate a submissive. She’s always been in this from the role of submissive, but she wants to observe. I fully admit there are certain activities I enjoy that Trix does not and there are times where I have a hard time crossing the line into full Dom mode with her, because she is my partner, lover, best friend, etc.
Yesterday, she approached someone about it. An experienced sub who is also somewhat of a pain-slut. I IM’d her last night and began the negotiations.
We agreed on a mutual trust level.
We discussed time and place.
We began running over some of what was to be done in the scene: Humiliation, bondage (light to heavy), spanking, flogging, waxing, breath-play, clamps, sensory deprivation and other activities of my choice.
I pretty much have a blank check on this one. DE sat next to me and made the suggestion that she would like to see needle play performed on both our sub and her. I agreed that would be a great idea. I’ve not done much needle play, and I know this will be particularly effective with our sub.
Other plans and ideas began to formulate in my head, of which I am putting into action now…need to do some shopping.
So, why barely legal? Well, this sub crosses the taboo line for most people I know, and to be honest, I was a little surprised when DE approached her, and a little surprised when our sub agreed.
She’s one of my ex wives.
I've played with my ex a few times as we are good friends and will always have the connection of our children together but I could never imagine taking her as a submissive…. You're a braver man than I, sir.
WoW!!!!!!!
Oh, I don't know that it's bravery. But thanks!
The three of us had and have played since without the Kink component. She is a marvelous sub, so for DE, she was a natural choice.
In the end it says a lot about DE and her bravery…heheh. Not every woman would invite her partner's ex into a sexual situation…especially one involving BDSM.
All good and twisted fun, my friend. All good and twisted fun. Heheheheheheh.
Well, I don't know anything about the relationship you have with your ex. So really I can't say much here. To me, it would sound like dangerous territory, but after reading a few previous comments, I guess you've been interacting. It would be difficult for me to allow an ex back in. All the more power to you.
This post is actually from a blog that I took down some time ago, so this play happened many, many months ago. I agree with you Mina, it is dangerous territory and I sure as hell wouldn't go near this if there wasn't consent on all sides and (more importantly) respect.
DE is a remarkable woman. T (the ex in question) respects boundaries very well. And I am one of those people who is fiercely loyal to my partner. So, on the occasions this happens, it works – for us. But I understand and respect your reservations!
This post is actually from a blog that I took down some time ago, so this play happened many, many months ago. I agree with you Mina, it is dangerous territory and I sure as hell wouldn't go near this if there wasn't consent on all sides and (more importantly) respect.
DE is a remarkable woman. T (the ex in question) respects boundaries very well. And I am one of those people who is fiercely loyal to my partner. So, on the occasions this happens, it works – for us. But I understand and respect your reservations!