Archive for December, 2008

Liars and Cheats – A comedy…

Liars and Cheats

Liars and Cheats

Old, old story. And for me, an old comedy.

Man (or woman) Wants. They do not Get in their current relationship. Rather than being honest about it, they take off into that shadow place we know as “Lie”.

I’ve been a victim of this. It was a serious, serious hot spot for me for a long time. Now, it’s just something I get a laugh out of.  I was a serious cheat in my Teen years. Once I got engaged, I took the commitment very seriously. Even in an Open Relationship I take it seriously. DE knows everyone I talk to, approach and have any kind of relationship.

Unfortunately, not many are brave enough to take the path of honesty here. Or they use the term “Open Relationship” as an excuse to behave badly. Lately I’ve spoken with several subs in the area who are being approached by a Dom I know is married and who’s spouse, family, etc. have no idea what he’s up to.

I could “Out” him, but it’s not my place to judge. It is up to the Negotiation Process to ferret out the situation. Besides, it’s really none of my damn business! Would I do it? Hell no! Would I get involved with someone in this situation? I tend to say “NO!”…simply because I don’t want the personal drama.

However (yes…here comes the caveat) if it came down to a strict Use/use relationship? Who knows. It would be something I would definitely let DE know about and weigh her advice.

No, I don’t like seeing my friends, subs, etc. getting hurt or into situations with Liars and Cheats. But hey! It’s their life…

Comments?

-Tutivillus

Age Play

Recent requests and recent interests have forced me to look deep into one of my final “soft limit” taboos.

Age Play. That remnant of programming in my head that seemed to restrict this activity has finally peeled away to reveal a rich world of untapped fantasy, play and Scening.

age play

age play

Yes, I have ALWAYS enjoyed the appeal of the “school girl” and “little girl” scene. But other than dress-up games, I had never been willing to take on the role of “Daddy” or “Teacher”.

Now that’s definitely changed…updates will be coming.

-Tutivillus

Boob Fisting?

It’s hypnotic…

boob fisting

boob fisting

…yes…hypnotic…

Kinky Christmas Stockings!

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Kinky Christmas Stockings

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Heavy Negotiations…

Both DarlingEvil and I are in heavy negotiations this week — each with a different consideration for our own use.

I harp on the importance of negotiation regularly. It’s importance is something that CANNOT be understated. That being said, over the Christmas break I’ll put together a formal piece on negotiation, PDF it and make it available as a download for free use and reference.

In the meantime…here’s a Yule-time picture to warm your hearts!

Happy Holidays!

Happy Holidays!

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