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Glimmer

Published by Tutivillus on March 31, 2009 under BDSM, Dungeon, Erotic, Kink/Fetish

A house, a gathering of people and rooms filled with devious intent played out on personal stages.

That was my first BDSM play party. I had strict instructions to observe. I was not to participate in any way. It was a difficult box to live in since my nature is to watch, break out and jump in.

I wanted to experience, feel, throw the tails and taste the whip.

So much soaked in. So much…

The party ended. A whole Lifestyle began. All that I knew I was became valid.

What was your experience?

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Bondage lovers ‘not sexually abnormal’ | The Australian

Published by Tutivillus on March 29, 2009 under BDSM, Kink/Fetish

Bondage lovers ‘not sexually abnormal’ | The Australian.

“AN unusual sex survey has found that Australians who enjoy bondage and discipline are not damaged or dangerous, and might even be happier than those who practise “normal” sex.”

Not that we needed a survey to tell us this (sexual repression just pisses me off). But it’s nice to see some actual research pushing the perceptions.

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A Fetish Clothing Roundup

Published by Tutivillus on March 27, 2009 under BDSM, Dungeon, Kink/Fetish

Fetish. Have to love a good, wholesome fetish. But what’s a Kink to do when they’re favorite garments need care? Well…we turn to our friendly Internet for help!

Caring for your Latex

Caring for Leather garments

Rubber garment care

And what about my Vegan friends out there? Where’s some V friendly clothing?

Vegan Erotica

Just some basics in a very quick post, but that should answer a few of the questions I’ve gotten.

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Revise

Published by Tutivillus on March 24, 2009 under BDSM, Choices, Dungeon, Erotic, Kink/Fetish

Oh, there I stood. Captain of my ship. Master of all things! I held the ropes and steered my …

…right.

I speak of a fun scene I tested out this past weekend.

Seemingly simple. In reality? Not so much.

This is part of the fun involved in creating and taking risks. My sub for that scene was marvelous (and her partner most generous). Even though bits and pieces fell to chaos, it was a blast and her feedback gave me the fuel needed to refine.

New knots, new clips, a slightly different layout for the ropework.

For me this isn’t about perfection…it’s about expanding knowledge, experience and adding moments.

And, of course, it’s about having fun – if that ever stops, then it will be time for me to quit.

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