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DungeonPlace FetishCast Episode 5 – I’m My Daddy!

DungeonPlace FetishCast Podcast! BDSM

Topics: Auto-asphyxiation, TNG (revisited) and UTBDSM

Auto-erotic and erotic asphyxiation/breath play. Are there safe methods?

Joined by Jacean and MakeMeSmile to discuss and displell the myths surrounding TNG and its place in the BDSM community.

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Panel Members: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil (DE), Goddess, Gamer, Jody, Chris, Gryphon, DannyJo, Sythen, Meow, Jacean, MakeMeSmile

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Sex and the Scene

Slave to the TradeI’ve written about this before and one bit we can all agree on?

This is an issue with a fight behind it.

The reasons behind a lack of sex in Scenes at public parties are long, varied and possibly tragic. Sometimes I wish they’d change…othertimes I’m happy with them being the way they are.

(I miss the Grottos and Nookie Rooms)…

Granted, sex is Not a required component to a good BDSM scene…it can be a fun one. Sexual Domination is a great skill when used properly!

So I’m curious.

What are your thoughts?

Would Sex during Scenes freak you out or add to the experience?

Sound off!

Creative Commons Licensephoto credit: Katayun

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Evernote – It’s a great tool for Kinks!

@DarlingEvil and I were sitting in Olive Garden waiting for our order and watching a summer storm crash against the mountains. It was Friday night – busy, noisy, but completely tolerable.

I began explaining a scene I’d been thinking out but realized my words were lacking. I didn’t have my Moleskine handy, so I grabbed my phone and drew out the Scene in Evernote.

kinky evernote

kinky evernote

(Yeah, it’s a very basic drawing…but that’s okay. There was also a bit of Comedic commentary running along with it.)

I love drawing out Scenes while I’m planning. I usually sketch them in my Moleskine then snap a picture and upload it to Evernote. But in a pinch? It’s nice to draw them out on the phone itself. (No, this isn’t a paid ad.)

A bonus? I handed this around to several people (a.k.a. victims) and they actually interpreted the drawing without much explanation.

So my kinky friends…take this tool and love all over it!

(For an explanation of Evernote itself? Go to their Site.)

Thoughts about Orgies

You may notice…this post is not for everyone.

Orgies are interesting things. Tangles of asses and elbows thrown onto whatever furniture is handy…much of which is uncomfortable (they just don’t make Orgy-Friendly furniture!)

Bodies hit the floor, chairs, tables, bedstands. More people learn to puzzle onto a bed than makes sense. Moments often find pieces of yourself rubbing against another’s flesh, unintentional. So you reach out and touch – stroke, grab, tease…taste. All the while occupied in the ways of forbidden sex.

The noises are either distracting or arousing. Then all goes to hell and a flurry of jokes break loose only to be eventually muffled by body parts and the sounds of sex.

Smells. What can be said about the smells? Alcohol, smoke, the smell of women, the smell of men. It surrounds you…and you simply don’t care.

If you’re one of the pieces on the bed, puzzling out your own little corner of sex, you have to deal with another’s rhythm. Or many other rhythm’s…all rolling across the same mattress. All hitting you in strange ways. You either adapt and form a uniform movement that’s compatible with all the fucking or you get off the bed.

I prefer to lead…my rhythm is a good one. And my song is strong.

Observers float in and out. People finish and move through. You can feel strangers touching you, taking you in or wanting to take you. You either flow or just don’t.

Invitations are often eye-level only. Across a room you’ll see your next move – and you simply point yourself there.and.go.

Women have the advantage.
Men can have the most fun.

And yes…sometimes people look bored.

Love ‘em or hate ‘em…everyone should have at least 1.

-Tutivillus

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