The Importance of Protocol
Here’s a question for the Dominants, Masters, Daddys and Owners (etc.) out there.
“How important is Protocol in your D/s relationships?”
Do you have an established protocol? Is it something you teach your playmates, partners, properties? Or do you just wing it?
My personal opinion is this…as a whole, we’ve let Protocol slide. Do you agree or disagree?
I’d like your opinions.
Tags: bdsm, fetish, kink, protocol, d/s, masters, daddys, owners
I would agree with your statement that as a community, we've let protocol slide… but is that necessarily a bad thing? While it works for some relationships to be somewhat “protocol-based”, there are a lot of us that just don't care so much about the formality of kink, and would rather fast forward to the good stuff.
Something to consider.
Protocol is a form of service. For some service is a good part of their
kink.
Another consideration? Protocol can be a form of seduction. A damn fine form
of seduction!
Therefore, I wouldn't discount the importance at all.
Third? History.
Although I agree with you in the heart of your argument. Sometimes? You just
want to get straight to the fun.
Thanks for the comment!
I would agree with your statement that as a community, we've let protocol slide… but is that necessarily a bad thing? While it works for some relationships to be somewhat “protocol-based”, there are a lot of us that just don't care so much about the formality of kink, and would rather fast forward to the good stuff.
Something to consider.
Protocol is a form of service. For some service is a good part of their
kink.
Another consideration? Protocol can be a form of seduction. A damn fine form
of seduction!
Therefore, I wouldn't discount the importance at all.
Third? History.
Although I agree with you in the heart of your argument. Sometimes? You just
want to get straight to the fun.
Thanks for the comment!