Twisted Minds
Contradictions.
Should the life of a Kink require we live like we’re two separate halves of a whole being? I’m not talking about knowing when it’s “the time or place” for kink – I’m speaking of living and being happy with all parts of our lives.
Sadist, masochist, kink, submissive, master…shouldn’t matter. God-fearing, godless, Democrat, Republican, family, single. Is one half of you pulling on the other until you feel like you’re being torn apart?
If yes? If this life is stressing you with the contradictions, it’s time for a change.
I think you can have your cake and beat it too. Its just a matter of how confined you choose to allow yourself to live in Vanilla World. Honestly, if you are going to lead a double life, be prepared that eventually the mask will crack.
However, there is another way which requires more work but is more healthy for you. That is, consider your kinky side on a need to know basis. For those that “dont need to know”, you simply dont volunteer the info. If it comes up, than you can talk about it. If they are the type to kill the messenger when they get the answer to a question that they dont want to hear, its still going to be their problem.