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Support Sythen!

www.rockymountainolympus.com

Listener Suggestion:

• When Master and slave have been together for some time and the slave has been trained, how do you keep it going? @CareID69

Topic 2:

• Stepping Up and Stepping Out: Taking charge of your Kink – It’s time to play in public without fear or apprehension!

Stay tuned next week for part 2!

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Panel: Tutivillus, Misha, HeyNurse, Goddess, Sythen, SyrBigDog, Aine32, Lscribbens

Tags: podcast, kink, kinky, fetish, bdsm, master, slave, training, play, confidence, fear, apprehension, rocky mountain olympus

©Tutivillus Sadist Podcast

The podcast episode where Tutivillus discusses sadism, pain, pain sluts, PETA and Tofu Frogs.

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Fire, Flesh and Nipples

Take a picture in a very dark room (make it pitch black). Put a beautiful model in that dark, let the flames fly and open the shutter.

This is what you get.

When it comes to play I love fire. Yes, it’s great as a tool on skin – but it’s even better when used on the mind. Your submissive doesn’t even need to see it.

The sound.

The heat…the mind magnifies a flame and twists it into a skin crisping inferno.

The body strains against bonds. Mouths stretch around the gag in muffled protests … or screams. Eyes widen white.

The blood pumps.

Fire matures a scene.

Beautiful!

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Tags: fire, flame, bdsm, kink, fetish, photography, gags, screams, bonds, bound

Many of us label ourself and to some extent it’s unavoidable. We call ourself parent, friend, lover, son, employee, master, submissive, etc. However, many of us have several labels that can seem at odds with each other, especially within the kink lifestyle.

I try to avoid some of the labels by calling myself a creative kinkster and I can see how, and why,  some identify as a Switch. In my mind that allows an expression of their interests. It’s one way to change the way others perceive you, both at that given, specific time and in general (eg, ‘I maybe beating on this person but I also like to be dominated’; or ‘I’m getting off on being bound and tormented right now, but I like to tie as much as be tied’).

People who know you soon recognize that your role changes depending on your current burning need or desire, and perhaps how you interact with a specific person, or type of personality. There’s nothing wrong with it. It doesn’t mean you can’t make a decision, nor that you’re still searching for your ‘true role’.

I find it to be an exploration, an acknowledgment of the various sensations, situations and energy flows within the different aspects of our personal dynamics. Embrace it, enjoy it, and be proud.

GamerUK

creative kinkster (who just happens to also be a sadist)

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We’re proud to have Unspeakableaxe from the Masocast podcast  (www.masocast.com) joining us for a simulcast.

Please to enjoy!

Topics

• Subjecting three kinky women to Chat Roulette (pre-roll) (www.chatroulette.com)
• Let’s play “Compare the Kink!”
  • Describe the “Lifestyle scene” in New York and in Utah. Let’s contrast the differences, if any.
• Rumors of Thunder In The Mountain’s demise – A great loss or simply the progression of things?
  • Thoughts?
  • Are there TOO MANY “Events?”
• Rihanna’s gonna play a Dominatrix…do we really need another (half-assed, over hyped) portrayal of our kink in the Mass Media?
  • If you’re gonna do it, do it right!
  • http://www.stuff.co.nz/entertainment/3332189/Rihanna-to-play-dominatrix

Panelists: Unspeakableaxe, Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Sythen, Goddess, Gamer, Juju_Bee, LScribbens, Minx, SyrBigDog, Aine43

Tags: podcast, masocast, dungeonplace, kink, kinky women, new york, utah, bdsm, fetish, kinky podcast, fetish podcast, thunder in the mountains, dominatrix, rihanna, lifestyle

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Myspace, Facebook, Twitter, Wave, Buzz, Messenger, Yahoo? How many do you use? And, perhaps more importantly, how many do you use to look for/contact partners with?

With online dating, and instant conversations,  I wonder if  ’ The age of deception’  wasn’t reborn?  We are able to chase the partner of our dreams and find them (anywhere in the World), although unless you web-cam, or meet up, the person using pixels could well be deceiving you in some way.  While they could just be shy, they can also be a vastly different age, height, weight, could be a vice-squad sting team looking for pedophiles, or lying about what sex/orientation they are.

Does that really matter? Are you looking for a hookup? Then the truth probably matters a fair bit. If I was wanting sex with a beautiful, younger, athletic, intellectual women I’ve clicked with online and be tapped on the shoulder by Bernard, an older guy with receding hairline, bad teeth and severe B.O. I’d be angered because I’d been lied to, and it’s not what I’m after. I’m pretty open minded and will happily have a conversation with anyone no matter their sexual orientation (pedophiles need not apply) but I also know what pushes my buttons when it comes to arousal.

However, if you’re looking to have your senses stimulated by the above “beautiful, younger, athletic, intellectual women” then if you’re not seeing ‘her’ or actually going to meet up, then who cares if Bernard is getting his rocks off at the same time, pretending to be his alter-ego and swapping deviant desires and getting jiggy with you?

The point is, to look at what you want and create the encounter that satisfies on the level you want/need (and yes, for all involved). Cyber may not be the complete answer to real life sexual and BDSM encounters, but circumstance or ’simple’ shyness may require a release in a more discreet manner. I suggest everyone should at least try cyber. Even if it’s not as fulfilling as you expect or want, it can be a fun option.

After all, isn’t the path to great sex/kink achieved through mental build up of some sort?

- Gamer

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Topic 1: Is Collaring really necessary?

• If you’ve got a sea full-o-fish, why bother? (This is a devil’s argument)

Topic 2: How (NOT) to approach someone in an Open Relationship for sex – even if they’re Male! (The Drunk Dialed Booty Call)

Topic 3: Sex Dolls and artificial intelligence

• How does that differ from Master/slave relationships?
• http://www.slate.com/id/2243580/
• http://www.veronicabelmont.com/2010/02/more-on-roxxxy-the-sexbot/
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Mori_Uncanny_Valley.svg
• http://www.realdoll.com/

Kinky Word of The Day: Lygerastia - Lygerastia refers to the inability to become sexually aroused unless it is dark.

Site of The Day: http://www.letsmasturbate.com/

Panelists: Tutuivillus, DarlingEvil, Goddess, Gamer, Aine, SyrBigDog, Misha, Sythen, LScribbens

Tags: podcast, kink, fetish, kinky, collars, collaring, open relationships, drunk dial, booty call, real doll, bondage, dungeon, dungeonplace, sex dolls, ai, artificial intelligence, lygerastia, masturbate, masturbation

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As if Privacy wasn’t already a complex concern already, here comes the next nightmare for those of us who wish to keep our lives to ourselves.

Google Goggles. What is it? (Hint: NOT Google Mail Goggles)
http://www.google.com/mobile/goggles

Facial Recognition is already a fact of life. Law Enforcement, Intelligence and Military organizations have used it for years. It hasn’t hit full public use, yet — but it’s only a matter of time. I for one am not a huge fan of sitting in a room, waiting for a job interview while someone snaps a picture and lets my face do the searching for them.

Does that sound paranoid? Really? I am proud of who and what I am, but it’s my business. If I care to share it with anyone, that’s my business. It is not the business of the corporate world unless I’m purposely doing something to harm those with whom I have a professional relationship.

Below is some basic research on Google Goggles and the reason behind my growing irritation.

• A picture is worth a thousand words.
• No need to type your search anymore. Just take a picture.
• Find out what businesses are nearby. Just point your phone at a store.
• This is just the beginning – it’s not quite perfect yet.
• Works well for some things, but not for all.
• Your pictures, your control. Turn on ‘visual search history’ to view or share your pictures at any time. Turn it off to discard them once the search is done.

Available on phones that run Android 1.6+
GG will move to other platforms: http://bit.ly/5tPWzR

“It is our intention to quickly develop Goggles for the most popular mobile handsets and platforms,” Google’s Katie Watson tells me. “Unfortunately, we don’t have a specific time frame to share.”
Hands-on tour – http://bit.ly/5d02sB

Up to 1,000 photos are retained in your Google Goggles search history.
The Google Goggles search history is not related to your Google search history

Privacy: “Google indicates, the Goggles app retains your IP address and Google account details for five weeks in order to help “keep the service stable and secure.”

“If you’re worried about privacy, Google Goggles gives you two options: You can discard all of your images as you go, or you can save them in a searchable history. Selecting the searchable history option makes the images available to Google, separate from any personal data, for the purpose of improving the service. Aside from that, Google indicates, the Goggles app retains your IP address and Google account details for five weeks in order to help “keep the service stable and secure.” – http://bit.ly/5tPWzR
Facial Recognition?

Google has decided to not allow people to use its new visual search tool, Google Goggles, to identify people for fear of a privacy backlash (for now) – http://bit.ly/4Tu7qa

Marissa Mayer, vice president of Google’s Search Product and User Experience, revealed to The Telegraph exclusively at LeWeb 2009 in Paris, that Google Goggles will simply ignore people’s faces if people tried to apply the same technology to identify individuals rather than places or objects.
“Until we understand the implications of the facial recognition tool we have decided to make sure we block out people’s faces. We need to really understand how this tool affects people’s privacy and cannot change that decision until we do,” she explained.”

So, obviously it can do it now. Is it cataloging search results for fine-tuning until it’s released?

More words on this? http://bit.ly/88DFuu

Google spokesman Anthony House said: ‘We do have the relevant facial recognition technology at our disposal. For instance with our Picasa picture service a user can tag a friend in their photo album and it will search for and tag any other pictures of that person.

‘But we haven’t implemented this on Google Goggles because we want to consider the privacy implications and how this feature might be added responsibly.

‘So if someone uploads a picture of a stranger on Goggles there is no process to identify them and the search will come up with “no matches found.”

‘We will have talks with privacy advocates and consumers before we consider any changes – it may be people want such a service, but we don’t have a rigid timescale on when any decisions will be made.’

The controversy comes as Google CEO Eric Schmidt was lambasted by an Internet Privacy watchdog for some off hand remarks he made to the U.S news channel CNBC.

He was asked whether people should treat Google like a trusted friend. In his answer he said: ‘If you have something that you don’t want anyone to know, maybe you shouldn’t be doing it in the first place.’

So, decide. Do you like the idea of someone taking a picture of you and being able to see what the Internet has to offer on your face, identity, etc.

Start adding the small worries of this little graph.

“Around 70% of hiring managers in in US have rejected candidate just because of their online reputation. The chart looks at the various types of online information that have led companies to reject candidates.”

No thanks. I want the option to opt-out of this one.

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Listener suggestion!

• From Twitter – careid69: “How to keep the intensity after the training is complete”

• Anatomy of a roleplaying scene? – there’s probably more people like myself who are interested in roleplaying but just don’t know how to go about actually doing one (and how to alleviate the self-consciousness of it perhaps).
  • “Remember that role playing is not simply about being someone else for an evening; it helps both of you divulge preferences that you may otherwise not reveal. Although you’re behaving like someone else, these kinds of games give away your true interests”
  • http://www.lovingyou.com/content/passion/passionplay-content.php?ART=roleplaying
  • http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1354350/sexy_role_playing_costumes.html
  • http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip/46b_love_tip.html
  • http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roleplaying
  • http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_roleplay
  • Plus a DEMO!
• Dealing with Mistakes in a Scene

The Burn Report! A very brief report and account of making a theme camp at the Utah Burn. Once a Month update until the Big Weekend.

• What we’re planning on building (furniture)
• And some of the inside details of planning a Theme Camp for Kinksters

Kinky Word of the Day

Sapiosexuality: To become attracted to or sexually aroused by intelligence and its use.

SOTD: My Bottom Smarts: http://bottomsmarts.blogspot.com/

Panel: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Goddess, Sythen, Misha, LScribbens

Tags: podcast, roleplaying, role playing, kink, kinky, bdsm, bondage, nuns, burn, burning man, utah burn, element 11, sapiosexuality, spanking, theme camp,  mistakes, reputation, intensity, training, defile

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©Tutivillus Sadist Podcast

Where Tutivillus speaks of Sadism vs. being a True Sadist. Classes and partners of Sadists witnessing a Sadist unleashed. Listen to Tutivillus speak through numb lips…after a visit to the dentist.

Tags: podcast, sadist, sadism, bdsm, kinky, dungeon, dungeonplace, class, training

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• What is abuse in a kink/BDSM relationship?
• Is there a difference between abuse in the ‘vanilla’ and kink community?
• What do we do about abuse in the Kink/BDSM Community?

Utah 2009 report on Domestic Violence: http://media.bonnint.net/slc/1702/170296/17029623.pdf

National Leather Association Domestic Violence Project: http://www.nlaidvproject.us/
The vision of the NLA-I Domestic Violence Project is to create a national and international network to provide information, appropriate referrals, resources, and safe shelters for those in the world community who have been subjected to abusive and violent BDSM relationships and who are seeking a way out of those relationships or who require a more extensive support network than is otherwise available to them.

Site of the day: http://www.thenetworklared.org/smvsabuse.htm

This is the site we used to define abuse in Kink, S/M and BDSM relationships for this episodes of the podcast.

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Email us: dungeonplace@gmail.com

Or Twitter @bdsm_group

If you have anything you’d like to add to this discussion.

Panel: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Scarlett, Goddess, Novice

Tags: podcast, abuse, bdsm, kinky, s/m, relationships, abusive relationships, bdsm abuse, kink abuse, support network, fetishcast, dungeonplace, domestic violence, vanilla, national leather association

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I enjoy listening to as many other Kinky podcasts as possible. One of my favorites is the Masocast. Very enlightening!

His episode “Reaction Junkie” had a particular impact.  This is the excerpt:

A conversation with Sascha about different kinds of non-monogamy, advice for men who email her, merging her halves and more.

Pretty much every one of those talking points…spoke to me. I always struggle to define (or NOT define) my non-monogamy, I am baffled by some of the communication from the people who contact me (both men and women) and walking with an animal inside is always a good time.

Listen to it. There is MUCH insight. Get familiar with the host. You can find him on Twitter: @unspeakableaxe. We’re also trading interviews before too long!

Let me know what you think.

Tags: masocast, non monogamy, bdsm, unspeakableaxe, kink, kinky, sex, sexuality, podcasts, masochist

nude Asian model fetish

Yes, it’s a very common fetish, but I’ve got it. I have that strange fascination with looking (leering in a dumbfounded, brain-addled gaze) at naked Asian women.

Does that make me…”wrong”?

Nah! Take a look for yourself!

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A funny thing happened while recording this episode. The dog (yeah, a real dog who wanders about the house while we record these podcasts) knocked over the recorder. We caught it, but didn’t realize we’d hit the pause button. So this episode cuts off at around 49 minutes.

To help make up for this atrocity, I’ve included the pre-show.

The dog has now been banned from future recordings.

• Topic 1: Reader Question Hey, have been listening to the episode 1 re-release and it got me thinking. I’ve never been to a play party, in fact I only went to my first fetish event (the Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar) 3 months ago with my Master, and while I want to play publically and go to events like that, it terrifies me. However, the reason it scares me is because I’m worried that people will judge me because I don’t look like I belong in the scene. I’m a girly girl, I like to follow fashion, I wear a fair amount of pink and I’m generic in every other aspect of life apart from my kink. I am aware that that sounds pretty judgemental in itself because I’m sure loads of kinksters are exactly the same, but when we went to the BBB 90% of the people there were obviously kinky or gothic, etc. So basically my question is: should I be terrified? and Should I dress differently at fetish events?
• Topic 2: Insert Here! Your favorite Kink-related Insertable play!
• Topic 3: (For the Panel) What’s your Kinky New Year’s Resolution/Goal?

Tags: bdsm, podcast, fetishcast, fetish, kinky, kink, dungeonplace, fetish fashion, insertables, insertion play, new years eve, resolutions

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giant woman fetish

You’ve gotta love IO9 and their Fetish Posts. Giant woman love is fun! Check it out!

The Larger-Than-Life Sex Lives Of Giant Women [NSFW]

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Portable, easily concealable Suspension Tripods are a goal sought by many a Kink! There’s a Great discussion going on over at Fetlife about them.

If you are willing to spend a bit of cash (not much, really) and take the time to learn, here’s the basics you’ll need to know.

BondageLessons.com has a rundown on the materials and techniques. See the page Here.

YouTube has a great video showing us all how to tie a tripod. I’ve included it below.

This really is a cool bit of technique for anyone interested in building a basic, portable suspension rig.

Just remember…BE CAREFUL!! And you do this at your own risk. Any suspension is dangerous and DungeonPlace.com takes no responsibility for your actions.

Have fun!

Tags: bondage, suspension, rigging, rigger, rope, suspension tripod, bdsm, fetish

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FetishCast

• Topic 1 (RANT ON!!) :Is Mental Illness an excuse for Bad Behavior in the Kink Community?
• Topic 2: Sensory deprivation play. heightened senses when some senses are blocked/countered? Curious about expanding this play. Limited experience but the experiments I’ve tried have been ‘interesting’. Opinions sought – will post info as I find more.
• Topic 3: What do you want Santa Claws to put in your BDSM Christmas stocking this year?

Site of the Day: http://www.canvasalive.com/japanpages/japan1.htm
KWOTD: amychophilia: being scratched

Panelists: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Goddess, GamerUK, Sythen

Tags: podcast, bdsm, fetish, kink, kinky, dungeonplace, mental illness, sensory deprivation, toys, amychophilia, scratching, body paint

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In Episode 15 of the Fetishcast (that’s our Podcast), we talked about Mezophilia. What the hell is that? Well! It’s the sexual arousal from breasts!

Now the question is this…is it real? (Besides just the regular Titty fascination.)

Nexus Newspapers wrote a great article entitled “Beauty and the breast” that nuzzles right into this topic.

“If there’s any elegance, design, and comfort in the universe—as all of our art, praise, and worship seem to unceasingly suggest—so much of it is found in these curiously haunting curves.

Are we a breast-obsessed culture? Breast fetishism, called mazophilia, involves a psychological and sexual interest amongst men and women for female breasts.”

I ask you this question…are we breast obsessed?

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©Tutivillus Sadist Podcast

The Episode where Tutivillus becomes Sadistic Man Whore!

Tags: sadist, man whore, boy, gay, party, play, bdsm, masochist, dom, pro

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Topic 1: The psychology of terror play.
Fear is divided into two stages, biochemical and emotional. The biochemical response is universal, while the emotional response is highly individualized.
http://www.lutz-sanfilippo.com/library/counseling/lsffear.html

Topic 2: Role with it, baby!
Is there more to your role than just your title?

Viewer call.
Site of the day: Passionandsoul.com
Kinky word of the day: Mazophilia: Sexual arousal gained from women’s breasts.

Panel: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Sythen, Sweetgeekgoddess, Gamer UK.

Tags: bdsm, podcast, terror play, roles, lee harrington, kinky, fetish, kink, bondage, facesitting, mazophilia, breasts

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Are you monogamous? Was it a conscious decision?

Naturally, you’re not monogamous – but you can choose to be

“First, there can be no serious debate about whether monogamy is natural for human beings. It isn’t. A Martian zoologist visiting planet Earth would have no doubt: Homo sapiens carry all the evolutionary stigmata of a mildly polygamous mammal with both sexes having a penchant for occasional ”extra-pair copulations”.”

Interesting read…interesting conclusions. What are your thoughts?

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A great article for the “Privacy Conscious”.

How To Remove Your Most Embarrassing Moments from Google.

“Different folks certainly have different tolerance levels for their online persona and how public they want it to be, but thankfully, there are tips to ensure that your boss, your ex, or your mildly interested former friends can keep tabs on you on your terms.”

We, as Kinks, need to consider such things. Read and learn!

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There’s a fine line, often blurred by twisted emotions, manipulations and dark illnesses left untreated. In our Community it can be common, spread by a few onto many unwilling victims.

How does one deal with a D/s relationship gone dark?

• First? Get the hell out!
  
• Call the Police. Although we’re often taught the Police may not be our friendliest Allie, in this case they most certainly are (in most cases you’ll find the Law is very much your friend).
• Do not feed Drama, but if you’re in a tightly knit community with common, public parties?
• …Get a Restraining Order. You may well have to quietly inform event organizers of the Order and provide a copy as proof.
• Did I mention “Do Not Feed Drama”?
• Take NOTHING personally.
• Do not put yourself in a vulnerable position! Protect yourself (legally) and your property (these cowards enjoy taking frustrations out on property).

There are many other recommendations and advices to be given. I’d love to hear them.

Care to share?

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©Tutivillus Sadist Podcast

Tutivillus recounts a scene where he may have gone a little too far…and risked grievous personal injury at the hands of a violated vegetarian in a coffin.

(Humor! Tutivillus plays safely and respects limits)

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Tags: sadist, podcast, bdsm, sadism, kinky, fetish, vegetarian, coffin, bondage, torture, restraint, screams, meat, balls, ass, tazer, shock, play party, play, lee harrington

FetishCast

Children in a Kinky household – Where is the line between “safe” and “dangerous” exposure when it comes to 24/7 relationships?

Interview with Luna from Submissiveguide.com

Panel:

Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Goddess, Gamer, Meow.

Call us! (951) 468-5465

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It is often in images that we find fire.

Weight-less

And from fire comes inspiration.

Worship

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Fetish? Beauty? Triumph?

All of the above?

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Cuff 'em

Sometimes it’s just fun to be told…to feel the hard steel biting your wrists.

Tags: bdsm, erotic photography, kinky, fetish, cuffs, handcuffs, women with cuffs, dominant women

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Yep, it’s that time again!

photo credit: Scurzuzu

I’ve started (and plowed about half-way through) my Xmas shopping. Problem is I’m at a bit of a quandary as to my own wants.

So I’ll just let that go and ask you.

What’s on your list of Kinky Xmas wants? What are you lusting after this year?

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FetishCast

1) Lighting up the Grid

• Dangers? Basic warnings for ALL electric play

• The top 5 toys from cheap to pricey.

• Why are we so damn afraid of this edge?

Buy a Violet Wand Kit!

Purchase a Violet Wand Kit!

http://www.violetwands.net/
http://www.violetwand.com/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dynamo
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Electroshock_weapon

2) What’s Your Flavor?(How we got to the roles we live)

Kinky Word of the day.
Dollification: the process of evolving, mentally and physically, into a “living doll.”
http://www.dollification.com/
http://myrubberdolly.com/

Site of the day: www.bodymod.org

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I’m negotiating an interview for the podcast. While exchanging emails an article was suggested.

A piece about “Jack Mormons and Utah”. Of course that piques my interest! Hell, I live in Utah and of course I love a good bit of irony when it comes to living behind the Zion Curtain.

photo credit: jmayer1129

(After all, it takes a sense of humor to live where you’re not wanted.)

I found the article.

“I Can’t Help Myself: Must…Write…About…Elections…” by Carol King. It beautifully exposes some of the irony behind Mormon politics, ethics and morals. Also a few of the quirks and pokes that exist in this “Pretty Great State”.

Take a read. Really! It’s a damn worthwhile trip!

Tags: bdsm, mormon, carol king, jack mormon, ethics, politics, morals

Wicked things are more fun when planned and executed by multiple evil minds. The brainstorms started when devious intentions combine, spark, gain momentum and feed off one another? They accelerate from mere storms to forces of dark nature in seconds.

Submissives and slaves whisper and glance fearfully. Their flesh and spirits yearning for the force of such unions to be released.

Such scenes and play recharge. They feed. Doldrums are often broken and transformed into raging seas where demons ride the waves laughing and screaming with joy.

Collaborate in Kink.

Share the joy. Spread the pain.

Support this Site and other great Kink sites! Visit the ABH!

Tags: kink, sadist, submissives, bdsm, brainstorms, scenes, slaves, demons, pain, joy, evil minds, nature

I know.

It’s been a while since I’ve posted a Half-Naked Thursday pic. I’ll remedy that today.

Wrapped ©2009 Tutivillus

Enjoy!

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Tags: hnt, half naked thursday, suspension, women suspended, bdsm photography, kink, kinky, bdsm, fetish, fetish photography

FetishCast

Topic 1: From Princess_L (tweet): Long distance kink? She lives in the UK and he lives in Mexico.Suggestions?

Topic 2: How far is too far?

http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/10/13/scotus.sex.trafficking/index.html

http://www.villagevoice.com/2007-03-13/columns/whip-appealed/

http://business.avn.com/articles/5039.html

Topic 3: (Goddess) FROM A LISTENER: “I listen to the dungeon place podcast and think it’s great. I saw in your profile that you are independent and have to deal with that as sub. I wanted to know how you dealt with and if it helps you to be a better sub? I want to work on this cuz it’s one thing I’m dealing with and so is my partner.”

Kinky word of the day: shokushu goukan (Tentacle Rape)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tentacle_rape

http://www.sfbg.com/entry.php?entry_id=8206

http://www.amazines.com/Tentacle_rape_related.html

And the Soda! (Tentacle Grape!) http://www.tentaclegrape.com/

Shokushu Goukan

Site of the day: Found this when I researching weird fetishes http://www.cakefarts.com/

Panel: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Aaron, ObedientLover, Gamer Uk, ScarlettEden, Danny_Jo

Tags: podcast, bdsm, fetish, kink, kinky,tentacle rape, long distance, gorean, crime, supreme court, tentacle grape, sub, submissive, dom, dominant, shokushu goukan, cake farts, sadist, fetishcast

Our readers send in some great questions, here’s a great example.

“I was at a party with a mixed crowd or swings and vanillas when I noticed someone from the BDSM world getting every phone number he could. I didn’t pay much attention until he focused on a friend. This worried me since I know this person is regarded as an “unsafe” player in several BDSM circles. At my first opportunity I pulled my friend and her husband aside and just said to be careful of this guy, he wasn’t the safest choice in the room. No other details, none needed.

I guess my question is, was this a good move? Is it our responsibility to warn our friends from one circle about bad players from another circle?” -MZ

My thoughts?

It would depend on how much potential drama you’re willing to accept, whether your knowledge of this “bad player” is first-hand (gossip is bad!) and what your motive behind the warning might be.

If you have seen examples of behavior you (and a Community “as a whole” share the opinion) deem “bad play”, then you have a leg to stand on. If all you’ve got are rumors and gossip? Don’t spread it.

What is your motivation? Are you looking to score points? Revenge for some wrong? Or is it a genuine concern for a friend? Be careful with this one. Rationalization is a powerful agent – listen to your gut and be honest with yourself.

And are you honestly willing to accept the potential drama this may drop in your lap? It could came back and bite you in the ass. So be prepared to defend your actions and accept the consequences if the need arises.

What about the rest of you? Thoughts on this?

If every you have a question for us, call! It may even be featured on the DungeonPlace Fetishcast! 1.951.GOT.KINK (1.951.468.5465)

Caller’s Comment

While perusing the Island of Pain I saw this commercial. Had to say…it cracked me up (pardon the pun).

A newly-unemployed GM engineer found a creative way to spend his government-funded buyout check and new-found free time, investing both into a whole new kind of horsepower. Meet the “Pleasuring Pony” and yes, it’s a ready-for-Hung sex toy.

GM Engineer Takes Buyout, Creates Sexual Penetration Machine – noir Leather – Jalopnik.

©Tutivillus Sadist Podcast

Where Tutivillus discusses the finer points of laughter, tickling, how to avoid injury and his partner’s sensitivity to fingertips.

Enjoy!

Oh…and a special guest appearance by a buzzy friend!

Needle Play is popular. It’s hot. It’s fun.

It’s also procedural. Certain things must be done before the needle sinks through the flesh. If not? Well, let’s just say trouble can arise in many forms.

How to learn? Study! How to study? Start with this book.

This is one of those activities that you can learn from a book – as long as you read it and do exactly what it tells you.

Then, just grab a willing victim and poke.

Seriously! Try it.

Tags: needle play, play piercing, needles, piercing, bdsm, fetish, kink, kinky, blood, study, research

FetishCast

• Topic #1 How does one prepare (mentally) for a Rape Scene?
• Topic #2 Does BDSM act as a stress relief and do you have a favorite scene you act out to provide that stress release.
• Topic #3 (and sites of the day) Finding fetish wear if you don’t fit the usual mold.
  • Big girl fetishwear http://www.biggalslingerie.com/
  • Shoes!! http://www.sweetheels.com/plussize/plus-size-heels.html

Kinky word: Menophila: arousal from menstral blood.

Panelists: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Goddess, Gamer

Tags: podcast, fetish, fetishcast, bdsm, kink, kinky, rape, rape scene, stress, fetish wear, shoes, menophila

MindnBody is one of my favorites, and I’m proud to call him my friend. DarlingEvil and I have done several scenes with him, photographed several. His specialty (although, it’s only one skill in a vast arsenal) is Rope.

Flogging a bound woman

(An example of MindnBody’s work (a scene he rigged with the help of Nick_M))

I asked him to share with us what he carries in his Rope Bag. Most of his rope comes from the notorious Twisted Monk (That man really needs to sponsor this Site…)

Rope Bag

Where The Wild Things Are X Opening Ceremony
Max Suit

Suit, tail, ears…you name it. Now no need to be unique, you can get your Fursonality off the rack.

I wonder if they had any idea what they were in for?

Max and Main Stream Furries

“by staring into their yellow eyes without blinking once”, max was made the king of the wild things. you can achieve his look far more easily with max’s iconic wolf play suit. identical to the one illustrated by maurice sendak and brought to life by spike jonze, our collaborative piece with the director features a super soft faux fur one piece with six brown buttons down the front, a snap off faux raccoon fur tail, attached fingerless gloves, and a hood with attached ears and a snap closure at the neck. 100% polyester, with a 85% acrylic, 15% polyester combo. sizing runs in mens but can be worn as unisex. both models are wearing size small. play suit available in judith/max.
(SKU:80707)

$ 610.00

Via OpeningCeremonies

Posted via web from tutivillus’s posterous

Electro Play

This is ‘Lil Fucker 2. It is made to hurt you. It wants to dig into your muscles and burrow through your nerves.

‘Lil Fucker 2 was born long before me and forgotten.  I took it, cleaned it, re-purposed it into a beautiful device of torture and screams.

(It even laughs like a Hyena while it works.)

LF2 wants to play. Who’s first in line?

Tags: electro play, bdsm, dynamo, magneto, electric, shock, scream, torture, hurt, pain, sadist, hyena, lil fucker 2, play

“Sex is full of lies. The body tries to tell the truth. But, it’s usually too battered with rules to be heard, and bound with pretenses so it can hardly move. We cripple ourselves with lies.” Jim Morrison

I was asked recently what was one of the things I enjoyed most about BDSM. My answer was immediate. It is the honesty that is essential to our play and the intimacy that is a result of such straight forward communication.

It begins with negotiations. Honesty becomes essential as you communicate your wants, desires and needs. After all for the sub, having someone use you and consensually abuse you demands that you communicate as concisely, clearly and as openly as possible. There is not a lot of room for coy prevarication when someone has you hogtied with a single tail in their hand. Hypocrisy doesn’t survive long on the other end of a flogger.

It is not a surprise that with such honest communication and the raw emotion that our play generates arises a level of intimacy that I have not found at any other time in my life. This honest communication that is so vital to our playtime certainly sorts the wheat from the chaff. Perhaps too it is this honesty I have discovered within myself that lends to more intimate relationships not only with my partner but with my friends in the lifestyle. I find my friendships are deeper, more intimate because not only am I more honest, but my kinky friends are too. BDSM teaches us all how to better communicate not only our desires, but our thoughts and ideas. This honest communication lays the foundation for trust where intimacy can thrive.  We may be a bunch of  sick twisted perverts…and proud of it…but the level of intimacy that derives from our twisted play  is truly a thing of beauty.

Our recent Podcast offering (#10, the Potluck episode) covered our interpretation of Community within BDSM. This weekend one of our kinky friends needed some help with replacing a roof, and so was mentioned locally at a play party, and on Fetlife and partially by word of mouth.I should mention that the space being renewed is used as a play space, just as much as being someones home.

I didn’t expect to be there because I thought I was starting a new job so when my training days were postponed I took advantage and offered 6 hours of my free time. (it was that or deep cleaning at my girlfriends, and while I love her…….).

So I drive 40 miles from my girlfriends to my own home (to grab some tools), then backtrack 5 or 6 miles to the project site. Arriving mid-morning there was already a bustle of activity, the roof was being stripped and new roofing materials were on site. Our local TNG group (The Next Generation) were very much in evidence as well as a few ‘mature’ folks like myself (mature being a better term than old because I don’t feel my age and I’m sure none of the others do either). There were conversations about side-projects, construction discussion (I think I know what a bird mouth? is now) and even talk about theater production and lighting. I made new friends (faces I recognized but couldn’t put names to) and hopefully pulled my weight. There weren’t many kinky conversations, though semi-joking discussions about waterboading and comments about being beaten with an Asp rod were made. I laughed.

However, what made it fun was the fact that despite all there with varying levels of skill, we were all working to a common goal: a new roof. Everyone gave what they could in terms of time and skill, asking nothing in return, but aware subconciously it benefits all of us who are able to use the space for our play sessions. By donating our service we show our appreciation for that.

More importantly perhaps, was the sense of commeraderie as we built ties between ourselves that maybe weren’t there before, or are now simply stronger. Thanks for feeding us well, and letting us use parts of your home for our kinky endevours. To you and my other co-workers, thanks for the conversations and your friendship.

I can happily say, that is being part of being our community!

Oh, and today (Sunday 27th) is day 2 of the project so why not drop in and say Hi! (bring work gloves and a smile).

So you’ve been there, done that and got the T-shirt. Bored? Well who’s fault is that exactly?

I have tried a few fun things in my journey into Kink, by no means an extensive sampling yet, which leaves me a veritable cornucopia of experiences as a Top. If I should get a hankering to try a different perspective I can always try a slice of submission (don’t hold your breath!!).

However, of the things I enjoy and feel I have some talent for, occasionally certain aspects have almost seemed mundane  recently where I feel I’m  ’just going through the motions’ (something my playmate does NOT deserve to suffer). I don’t think I was truly aware of  this until the last play party I attended (I’ve had a few burdens to carry recently in all fairness to my creative streak). Anyway, I’m chatting to my partners in crime, when a mummification scene starts right next to me. An accomplished member of the community whose creativity I’ve seen parts of on occasion, he has some clingy wrap, a volunteer and my partial attention (I’m still talking with friends…. but I know he plays with style).

Now, the wrapping proceeds, the fun begins, and my attention becomes glued, my own conversation falters as I’m concious of  the noise level dropping in this section of the play space.  I was torn initially between some edge play also taking place and this mummification. Not for long though as what followed was simple, creative and very intense. I don’t think there was a dry sub in proximity to the scene, and I’m sure the volunteer enjoyed it. Kudos to the Top and his playmates.

Invigorated, mentally refreshed, and re-enthused I came up with a few variations on some themes I already had. A few minutes of voyeurism goes a long way folks, so pay attention to your environment. Sometimes a Gem is just arms length from creative realization. As for being bored or going through the motions, I’m over it already and back on the pathway to tormenting my playmates as normal service is resumes.

Evolution of BDSM

The Media is watching. The movement to educate the masses is growing. Organized Corporations are recruiting. Non-profits pop like flowers, bloom, burst and die on top of one another – a constant phoenix cycle.

All this time we, the cogs, move to fuel the machine that is BDSM.

It’s not unlike the Hippie movement. Something that started with pure exploration, idealism, rebellion and many statements has become a money maker and status symbol. If you want to be someone you need to teach someone. If you want your name known it needs to be National. If you want to National you need to cut a niche from the fabric of our community.

And all to often that fabric we’re cutting was carefully knit by someone else.

I’ve met the people who created “this” but never got the recognition for it. And I know the giants who stand on “that”…when it’s really just something simple that’s been done for decades, centuries…who knows!

The scramble rolls and tumbles on.

I’m not immune. I do this little Site, record voices and people listen – all around the world! For some reason it’s taken off and I’m okay with that. I am humbled by the people reaching out and sounding off – thousands and thousands of you.

But I’ll admit, I do it for the same reason I do most things in my life. I do it because I love it, it’s fun. I don’t get paid for it, we’re sure as hell not making a living from this!

So I ask the question. “What are we now?”

Are we here to get noticed? Or are we here to fill a greater need?

I see many Collectors. I see many running to reach a level where they’ll achieve some notoriety.

In the end, the Collectors burn through their collections and the only notoriety gain is to become “Notorious”.

The rest of us simply do our thing.

Mine is different than yours. Yours is different than mine. If either gains respect of the the Community at large? Then it’s a good thing…

…I’ll sleep well knowing it was done through honest effort.

How about you?

*Edit: If you have any questions about this post feel free to contact me – I’d love to answer your questions.

-Tutivillus