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Support Sythen!

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Listener Suggestion:

• When Master and slave have been together for some time and the slave has been trained, how do you keep it going? @CareID69

Topic 2:

• Stepping Up and Stepping Out: Taking charge of your Kink – It’s time to play in public without fear or apprehension!

Stay tuned next week for part 2!

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Panel: Tutivillus, Misha, HeyNurse, Goddess, Sythen, SyrBigDog, Aine32, Lscribbens

Tags: podcast, kink, kinky, fetish, bdsm, master, slave, training, play, confidence, fear, apprehension, rocky mountain olympus

©Tutivillus Sadist Podcast

The podcast episode where Tutivillus discusses sadism, pain, pain sluts, PETA and Tofu Frogs.

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Tags: sadist, sadism, podcast, bdsm, fetish, kinky, kink, pain, pain sluts, peta, tofu frog

Fire, Flesh and Nipples

Take a picture in a very dark room (make it pitch black). Put a beautiful model in that dark, let the flames fly and open the shutter.

This is what you get.

When it comes to play I love fire. Yes, it’s great as a tool on skin – but it’s even better when used on the mind. Your submissive doesn’t even need to see it.

The sound.

The heat…the mind magnifies a flame and twists it into a skin crisping inferno.

The body strains against bonds. Mouths stretch around the gag in muffled protests … or screams. Eyes widen white.

The blood pumps.

Fire matures a scene.

Beautiful!

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Tags: fire, flame, bdsm, kink, fetish, photography, gags, screams, bonds, bound

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We’re proud to have Unspeakableaxe from the Masocast podcast  (www.masocast.com) joining us for a simulcast.

Please to enjoy!

Topics

• Subjecting three kinky women to Chat Roulette (pre-roll) (www.chatroulette.com)
• Let’s play “Compare the Kink!”
  • Describe the “Lifestyle scene” in New York and in Utah. Let’s contrast the differences, if any.
• Rumors of Thunder In The Mountain’s demise – A great loss or simply the progression of things?
  • Thoughts?
  • Are there TOO MANY “Events?”
• Rihanna’s gonna play a Dominatrix…do we really need another (half-assed, over hyped) portrayal of our kink in the Mass Media?
  • If you’re gonna do it, do it right!
  • http://www.stuff.co.nz/entertainment/3332189/Rihanna-to-play-dominatrix

Panelists: Unspeakableaxe, Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Sythen, Goddess, Gamer, Juju_Bee, LScribbens, Minx, SyrBigDog, Aine43

Tags: podcast, masocast, dungeonplace, kink, kinky women, new york, utah, bdsm, fetish, kinky podcast, fetish podcast, thunder in the mountains, dominatrix, rihanna, lifestyle

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Myspace, Facebook, Twitter, Wave, Buzz, Messenger, Yahoo? How many do you use? And, perhaps more importantly, how many do you use to look for/contact partners with?

With online dating, and instant conversations,  I wonder if  ’ The age of deception’  wasn’t reborn?  We are able to chase the partner of our dreams and find them (anywhere in the World), although unless you web-cam, or meet up, the person using pixels could well be deceiving you in some way.  While they could just be shy, they can also be a vastly different age, height, weight, could be a vice-squad sting team looking for pedophiles, or lying about what sex/orientation they are.

Does that really matter? Are you looking for a hookup? Then the truth probably matters a fair bit. If I was wanting sex with a beautiful, younger, athletic, intellectual women I’ve clicked with online and be tapped on the shoulder by Bernard, an older guy with receding hairline, bad teeth and severe B.O. I’d be angered because I’d been lied to, and it’s not what I’m after. I’m pretty open minded and will happily have a conversation with anyone no matter their sexual orientation (pedophiles need not apply) but I also know what pushes my buttons when it comes to arousal.

However, if you’re looking to have your senses stimulated by the above “beautiful, younger, athletic, intellectual women” then if you’re not seeing ‘her’ or actually going to meet up, then who cares if Bernard is getting his rocks off at the same time, pretending to be his alter-ego and swapping deviant desires and getting jiggy with you?

The point is, to look at what you want and create the encounter that satisfies on the level you want/need (and yes, for all involved). Cyber may not be the complete answer to real life sexual and BDSM encounters, but circumstance or ’simple’ shyness may require a release in a more discreet manner. I suggest everyone should at least try cyber. Even if it’s not as fulfilling as you expect or want, it can be a fun option.

After all, isn’t the path to great sex/kink achieved through mental build up of some sort?

- Gamer

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Listener suggestion!

• From Twitter – careid69: “How to keep the intensity after the training is complete”

• Anatomy of a roleplaying scene? – there’s probably more people like myself who are interested in roleplaying but just don’t know how to go about actually doing one (and how to alleviate the self-consciousness of it perhaps).
  • “Remember that role playing is not simply about being someone else for an evening; it helps both of you divulge preferences that you may otherwise not reveal. Although you’re behaving like someone else, these kinds of games give away your true interests”
  • http://www.lovingyou.com/content/passion/passionplay-content.php?ART=roleplaying
  • http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1354350/sexy_role_playing_costumes.html
  • http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip/46b_love_tip.html
  • http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roleplaying
  • http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_roleplay
  • Plus a DEMO!
• Dealing with Mistakes in a Scene

The Burn Report! A very brief report and account of making a theme camp at the Utah Burn. Once a Month update until the Big Weekend.

• What we’re planning on building (furniture)
• And some of the inside details of planning a Theme Camp for Kinksters

Kinky Word of the Day

Sapiosexuality: To become attracted to or sexually aroused by intelligence and its use.

SOTD: My Bottom Smarts: http://bottomsmarts.blogspot.com/

Panel: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Goddess, Sythen, Misha, LScribbens

Tags: podcast, roleplaying, role playing, kink, kinky, bdsm, bondage, nuns, burn, burning man, utah burn, element 11, sapiosexuality, spanking, theme camp,  mistakes, reputation, intensity, training, defile

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©Tutivillus Sadist Podcast

Where Tutivillus speaks of Sadism vs. being a True Sadist. Classes and partners of Sadists witnessing a Sadist unleashed. Listen to Tutivillus speak through numb lips…after a visit to the dentist.

Tags: podcast, sadist, sadism, bdsm, kinky, dungeon, dungeonplace, class, training

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nude Asian model fetish

Yes, it’s a very common fetish, but I’ve got it. I have that strange fascination with looking (leering in a dumbfounded, brain-addled gaze) at naked Asian women.

Does that make me…”wrong”?

Nah! Take a look for yourself!

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Tags: bdsm, asian model, fetish, kink, erotic photos, pics

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FetishCast

• Topic 1 (RANT ON!!) :Is Mental Illness an excuse for Bad Behavior in the Kink Community?
• Topic 2: Sensory deprivation play. heightened senses when some senses are blocked/countered? Curious about expanding this play. Limited experience but the experiments I’ve tried have been ‘interesting’. Opinions sought – will post info as I find more.
• Topic 3: What do you want Santa Claws to put in your BDSM Christmas stocking this year?

Site of the Day: http://www.canvasalive.com/japanpages/japan1.htm
KWOTD: amychophilia: being scratched

Panelists: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Goddess, GamerUK, Sythen

Tags: podcast, bdsm, fetish, kink, kinky, dungeonplace, mental illness, sensory deprivation, toys, amychophilia, scratching, body paint

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In Episode 15 of the Fetishcast (that’s our Podcast), we talked about Mezophilia. What the hell is that? Well! It’s the sexual arousal from breasts!

Now the question is this…is it real? (Besides just the regular Titty fascination.)

Nexus Newspapers wrote a great article entitled “Beauty and the breast” that nuzzles right into this topic.

“If there’s any elegance, design, and comfort in the universe—as all of our art, praise, and worship seem to unceasingly suggest—so much of it is found in these curiously haunting curves.

Are we a breast-obsessed culture? Breast fetishism, called mazophilia, involves a psychological and sexual interest amongst men and women for female breasts.”

I ask you this question…are we breast obsessed?

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FetishCast

Topic 1: The psychology of terror play.
Fear is divided into two stages, biochemical and emotional. The biochemical response is universal, while the emotional response is highly individualized.
http://www.lutz-sanfilippo.com/library/counseling/lsffear.html

Topic 2: Role with it, baby!
Is there more to your role than just your title?

Viewer call.
Site of the day: Passionandsoul.com
Kinky word of the day: Mazophilia: Sexual arousal gained from women’s breasts.

Panel: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Sythen, Sweetgeekgoddess, Gamer UK.

Tags: bdsm, podcast, terror play, roles, lee harrington, kinky, fetish, kink, bondage, facesitting, mazophilia, breasts

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Are you monogamous? Was it a conscious decision?

Naturally, you’re not monogamous – but you can choose to be

“First, there can be no serious debate about whether monogamy is natural for human beings. It isn’t. A Martian zoologist visiting planet Earth would have no doubt: Homo sapiens carry all the evolutionary stigmata of a mildly polygamous mammal with both sexes having a penchant for occasional ”extra-pair copulations”.”

Interesting read…interesting conclusions. What are your thoughts?

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©Tutivillus Sadist Podcast

Tutivillus recounts a scene where he may have gone a little too far…and risked grievous personal injury at the hands of a violated vegetarian in a coffin.

(Humor! Tutivillus plays safely and respects limits)

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Tags: sadist, podcast, bdsm, sadism, kinky, fetish, vegetarian, coffin, bondage, torture, restraint, screams, meat, balls, ass, tazer, shock, play party, play, lee harrington

FetishCast

Children in a Kinky household – Where is the line between “safe” and “dangerous” exposure when it comes to 24/7 relationships?

Interview with Luna from Submissiveguide.com

Panel:

Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Goddess, Gamer, Meow.

Call us! (951) 468-5465

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It is often in images that we find fire.

Weight-less

And from fire comes inspiration.

Worship

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Fetish? Beauty? Triumph?

All of the above?

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Cuff 'em

Sometimes it’s just fun to be told…to feel the hard steel biting your wrists.

Tags: bdsm, erotic photography, kinky, fetish, cuffs, handcuffs, women with cuffs, dominant women

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Yep, it’s that time again!

photo credit: Scurzuzu

I’ve started (and plowed about half-way through) my Xmas shopping. Problem is I’m at a bit of a quandary as to my own wants.

So I’ll just let that go and ask you.

What’s on your list of Kinky Xmas wants? What are you lusting after this year?

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I know.

It’s been a while since I’ve posted a Half-Naked Thursday pic. I’ll remedy that today.

Wrapped ©2009 Tutivillus

Enjoy!

If you want to see more HNT pics from other Sites, click HERE to visit the ABH!

Tags: hnt, half naked thursday, suspension, women suspended, bdsm photography, kink, kinky, bdsm, fetish, fetish photography

FetishCast

Topic 1: From Princess_L (tweet): Long distance kink? She lives in the UK and he lives in Mexico.Suggestions?

Topic 2: How far is too far?

http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/10/13/scotus.sex.trafficking/index.html

http://www.villagevoice.com/2007-03-13/columns/whip-appealed/

http://business.avn.com/articles/5039.html

Topic 3: (Goddess) FROM A LISTENER: “I listen to the dungeon place podcast and think it’s great. I saw in your profile that you are independent and have to deal with that as sub. I wanted to know how you dealt with and if it helps you to be a better sub? I want to work on this cuz it’s one thing I’m dealing with and so is my partner.”

Kinky word of the day: shokushu goukan (Tentacle Rape)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tentacle_rape

http://www.sfbg.com/entry.php?entry_id=8206

http://www.amazines.com/Tentacle_rape_related.html

And the Soda! (Tentacle Grape!) http://www.tentaclegrape.com/

Shokushu Goukan

Site of the day: Found this when I researching weird fetishes http://www.cakefarts.com/

Panel: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Aaron, ObedientLover, Gamer Uk, ScarlettEden, Danny_Jo

Tags: podcast, bdsm, fetish, kink, kinky,tentacle rape, long distance, gorean, crime, supreme court, tentacle grape, sub, submissive, dom, dominant, shokushu goukan, cake farts, sadist, fetishcast

Needle Play is popular. It’s hot. It’s fun.

It’s also procedural. Certain things must be done before the needle sinks through the flesh. If not? Well, let’s just say trouble can arise in many forms.

How to learn? Study! How to study? Start with this book.

This is one of those activities that you can learn from a book – as long as you read it and do exactly what it tells you.

Then, just grab a willing victim and poke.

Seriously! Try it.

Tags: needle play, play piercing, needles, piercing, bdsm, fetish, kink, kinky, blood, study, research

FetishCast

• Topic #1 How does one prepare (mentally) for a Rape Scene?
• Topic #2 Does BDSM act as a stress relief and do you have a favorite scene you act out to provide that stress release.
• Topic #3 (and sites of the day) Finding fetish wear if you don’t fit the usual mold.
  • Big girl fetishwear http://www.biggalslingerie.com/
  • Shoes!! http://www.sweetheels.com/plussize/plus-size-heels.html

Kinky word: Menophila: arousal from menstral blood.

Panelists: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Goddess, Gamer

Tags: podcast, fetish, fetishcast, bdsm, kink, kinky, rape, rape scene, stress, fetish wear, shoes, menophila

So you’ve been there, done that and got the T-shirt. Bored? Well who’s fault is that exactly?

I have tried a few fun things in my journey into Kink, by no means an extensive sampling yet, which leaves me a veritable cornucopia of experiences as a Top. If I should get a hankering to try a different perspective I can always try a slice of submission (don’t hold your breath!!).

However, of the things I enjoy and feel I have some talent for, occasionally certain aspects have almost seemed mundane  recently where I feel I’m  ’just going through the motions’ (something my playmate does NOT deserve to suffer). I don’t think I was truly aware of  this until the last play party I attended (I’ve had a few burdens to carry recently in all fairness to my creative streak). Anyway, I’m chatting to my partners in crime, when a mummification scene starts right next to me. An accomplished member of the community whose creativity I’ve seen parts of on occasion, he has some clingy wrap, a volunteer and my partial attention (I’m still talking with friends…. but I know he plays with style).

Now, the wrapping proceeds, the fun begins, and my attention becomes glued, my own conversation falters as I’m concious of  the noise level dropping in this section of the play space.  I was torn initially between some edge play also taking place and this mummification. Not for long though as what followed was simple, creative and very intense. I don’t think there was a dry sub in proximity to the scene, and I’m sure the volunteer enjoyed it. Kudos to the Top and his playmates.

Invigorated, mentally refreshed, and re-enthused I came up with a few variations on some themes I already had. A few minutes of voyeurism goes a long way folks, so pay attention to your environment. Sometimes a Gem is just arms length from creative realization. As for being bored or going through the motions, I’m over it already and back on the pathway to tormenting my playmates as normal service is resumes.

Women with Knives

Something about the feminine mystique combined with a sharpened edge…put them together.

I love watching women with knives. I love playing with women with knives. The thrill, electric, powerful, intense.

When I was younger the joy began with a rather twisted partner who took me to her bed with blades. We fucked and cut – soaking the sheets with sweat and blood as I rode her. I remember looking down on her smile, dreamy eyes, the dull gleam of metal and glisten of blood.

A scene that’s sometimes repeated…from time to time.

Milk ©DungeonPlace.com

Image Courtesy ThoughtGarden

A while ago DarlingEvil and I went to a party, a birthday party. It was one of “those” parties. Long and short. DE made friends with a nursing mother. DE had a strong desire to press her breasts into the cake.

Well…you can’t have cake without milk – can you?

A friend of ours captured this image, I tweaked it.  I think it’s one of the greatest spontaneous Fetish, erotic lactation images ever!

We hope you enjoy it.

-Tutivillus

Saturday Night.

10pm – Gather everything, grab a couple of Sweet Teas and drive.

Something I should have done…tie the rope before hand…that would have saved more time for shooting.

10:25pm – Arrive at location: a pretty much abandoned parking garage. Cars scatter the various levels. There’s a van being loaded at the dock. I’ve been watching this location for some time…no one uses the roof level.

10:35pm – After blowing precious time on rope, we’re ready. DE and I walk to one of the elevator buildings. I call the elevators to our floor, cuff and tie her – the shoot begins.

10:45pm – We leave.

If you don’t have handles installed…you make them.

Image Copyright Tutivillus/DungeonPlace 2009

(Taken at the Utah Rebellion)

Half-Naked Thursday – Return of the Corset Bondage Stockings

Corset Bondage Stockings 2

I’m not a fan of pointing lenses, pressing the button and letting the shutter fly. When I shoot photos I do work on capturing a single image that represents what I see – with a slight twist.

The photo shoot I worked this weekend consistently took that philosophy and blew it to hell. Over 900 pictures. There were segments during the weekend that damn near required the tactic!

Many of the results should be up soon at www.utahrebellion.com. A few will also appear here.

Now…back to the regularly scheduled programming!

-Tutivillus

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She twists.

Leather so willingly accepted, lightly chafes her wrists as she pulls subconsciously at her bonds.

Long hair, damp from her exertions, clinging to face, neck and upper back in affirmation of her joy.

Moans and whimpers pass her lips as tension melts, as pain evolves into pleasure, tears snaking rivulets of mascara in a journey south towards her breasts.

The chains above her, chiming the futility of escape, supporting her femininity while whispering her captivity.

Rope binding her most cruelly, accentuating her, offering her in celebration of His desires.

Marks from the whip, His sadistic caress of leather, taking her into that place beyond words, beyond expression.

Pain so long entwined with pleasure, with need, with desire rips a sob from her.

She turns, almost limp with fatigue and from release, her carnal desire swelling, charging the air with her essence, her longing.

She twists.

And in that place, in that moment, as the chains support and accentuate her beauty, as her suffering reaches a crescendo cascading into the warm bliss of inner tranquility, He knows that she is his.

And He smiles.

Kissing her, She twists.

I had my first session with my ponyboy… it went so well I even attached a video for your enjoyment. (Yes I am trying to be funny…)

This video represents how intense it made me feel.

Who says that having sex with your pony boy equates to bestiality? If you ask me… they are full of it.  However, should I be concerned that he is hung like a horse?

I had to discipline him this evening. It was quite empowering to be in my 6″ heels, wielding my crop, and holding the reigns attached to his head piece harness.  I think I did a good job… either that or I should look into some salt peter.

I need a name for my pony… any suggestions?

I finished the evening by fitting a CB3000 and attaching my padlock. Got to train him to be a good pony. Enjoy the video, it is pretty funny, and plus hearing Joan Collins say fuck is priceless.

More to come, we must get crackin… we have a fetish event coming up… and I would love to bring my pony with me!

Meow!

I had my first session with my ponyboy… it went so well I even attached a video for your enjoyment. … yes I am trying to be funny… this video represents how intense it was.  But who says that having sex with your pony boy equates to beastiality? If you ask me… they are full of it.  However, should I be concerned that he is hung like a horse?I had to discipline him this evening. It was quite empowering to be in my 6″ heels, weilding my crop, and holding the reigns in his harness. It really turned me on… I think I did a good job… either that or I should look into some salt peter.

I have been flirting with this for a while, and enjoy seeing the results. It heightens response and is just plain fun, even to the limited extent I’ve been able to accomplish with my playmates. I’m talking Sensory Deprivation here folks.

I had remembered reading something in my mid-20’s that if you restrained somebody, it intensified feelings, and reactions in other parts of their bodies, primarily because of how the mind compensates (the situation in question was a fight but the principle was sound).

Eventually I persuaded my lover to allow the tying of her hands to the headboard of my bed. Starting at her lips I began to stroke, tickle and tease my way to her toes, before returning, and starting over. She squealed and squirmed as though possessed, and afterward told me it was the hottest thing she’d done. It was very intense and intimate. We tried on other occasions, but it lacked the spontaneity and previous intensity.

Fast forward to Now, where I’m wanting to take this further, moving it into BDSM play where I can exploit several sensations at once. I think a 4 hour session, tied into a chair; gagged, blindfolded and with pink-noise piped to her ears, should provide suitable disorientation. Then I’ll be able to apply some sensation play *evil grin*

I foresee a woman straining at her bonds, sweating (oops sorry ,, I forget you ladies don’t sweat, you glow), wondering if it’ll be a cane or a kiss to caress her warm flesh next. Will I force her to a series of orgasms or simply leave her in a dark, static-filled void? Maybe I’ll allow myself some mood lighting, and a mask for when I remove the blindfold…..

I know it excites the sadistic part of me, the voyeur and the creative. Now, where is that rope?

Protocol: Breaking it down with Jodi.

Topic 1: Body image issues… overcoming fear and stereotypes.

Topic 2: Fisting & Vaginoplasty / Neovaginoplasty (MTF Trans) / Labiaplasty (reducing the size of Labia)

• Is it needed? Will extensive fisting require Vaginoplasty?

Buy The Cunt Colouring Book

I’d like to talk about our experiences with fisting, the mess, joy, love and hate of it.
Also, perhaps our intial fears of it. How we researched the techniques and some tips for those interested in beginning.

Desire “Leather Women Unleashed” www.desireleatherwomen.com.

Topic 3:Accountability when a M/s D/s relationship ends?
How responsible are you for offering a sense of closure? How much closure is enough?

Topic 4: Switching… How hard is it really? Can I learn to be both at the same time?

Topic 5: Sterilization methods

When you don’t own an autoclave. How do you keep your stainless steel implements sanitary?

Cold sterilization. Or you can ask a piercing shop if you can pay to have them autoclave

your implement (s) for you. What other options are out there?
Here are some Sterilization techniques

• http://www.chaseunion.com/documents/safety/sterile1.htm

• http://ask.bmezine.com/2008/10/26/sterilization/

VIEWER CALL/VOICEMAIL ADVICE. (Call us! 951.GOT.KINK)

• Bringing more Kink into a relationship

Kinky word of the day:
OBJECTIFICATION: an act in which one person is dehumanized or dehumanizes another.

• What would you want to be?… What would you make someone be?

Site of the Day: http://www.londonfetishscene.com/wipi/index.php/Main_Page

Tutivillus, DarlingEVil, Meow, Jeff, Jodi, Sythen, Gamer, Goddess.

Direct Download:

FetishCast Podcast Episode 7 – Fisting, Sterilization and Objectification

After watching a scene, a friend of mine was putting her “toys” back into her box.  There they were… a pair of Leg Irons. My feet shot out, my mouth salivated, my pulse raced. They were a birthday present from her husband. She grinned ear to ear and was all to happy to accommodate my wish. She then realized her matching wrist irons were in the car! 5 minutes later I was “in irons”, and in my mind, my own personal slice of submissive heaven. As I moved around the party, socialized and smoked, I could not help but grin ear to ear. Feeling the cold chains on my skin refreshing. Being teased, touched, and paddled a few times playfully. Is this what it feels like to “play” at a party? Why in the hell has it taken me so long? This was my 5th event, and I must say it was a night full of “Firsts” for this cat.

3 hours later, the irons were removed. I sat and pondered, as I watched a suspension scene, a flogging scene, fellow party goers showing off their toys, what am I to do next?  Flogging? No, not yet. Rope? Nah, don’t have the guts to ask. Then I saw her… another friend of mine, who is well known for her imagination, sadistic streak and skill with needle play. She had this surgical stapler in her toy box, that I have been curious as hell about, but afraid to try.  So I asked her, and she just grinned her beautiful hazel eyed smile.

Needless to say, I ended the evening with 16 staples and pretty yellow ribbon. I was pleasantly surprised, and loved the sensation. (especially one in each nipple allowing for my tassels) I left the staples & ribbon in for about an hour or more as I moved around the party. Relishing in each of my movements, as they tugged, pulled and strained my skin.

I am in no way a “pain slut” but this sensation and feeling of Saturday evening are ones that I will not soon forget. For those that know me, they know it was a big step for me. I gleefully claim that I crave more of these “sensations” as I move down this path. It makes me think and ponder this one question “Why did I wait so long?”

More to come for sure….

Meow

Reading an article today.

Do Men Sleep Around More Than Women? It talks about how men generally overestimate their number of sexual partners. Women, it seems, tend to keep a running tally and remember pretty much everything about their partners.

Hmmm.  Personal experience here? I’ve not got a “promiscuous” history, and the number of partners I’ve had has increased significantly in just the last 5-7 years. But most of the women I know STILL out number the partners they’ve had.

And no…I remember VERY little about my partners. I could give an accurate number, but names?  Other details? Not a chance.

Does this make me a man-whore?

And what’s your experience? Who’s accurate and to what detail?

Tutivillus

(ps…here’s the link to the article.)
http://www.psychologytoday.com/rss/pto-20030416-000001.html

The very first play party I attended was in a community house. Each room had been converted into an encapsulated playspace.

Terror play, needle play, flogging, rigging, fisting, sounds, electical play, knife play…. From Thud to Snap to Edge it was there and I was in overdrive.

The scene that I remember most was done on a bed suspended from the ceiling. The sub had at least a hundred needles running through his body. Each needle was carefully tied with delicate line which was fastened to various points above the bed. The needle portion alone was hypnotic, but I laughed aloud when the sadistic fun really started.

The Domme gently began swinging the bed back and forth, each line pulled on each needle.

The sub groaned – deep, low, long. Skin pulled along his frame as the bed tensioned various bits.

Scenes like those make impressions. They define. They make us either run or grin.

This one made me think, drove me to learn and propelled me forward.

You may notice…this post is not for everyone.

Orgies are interesting things. Tangles of asses and elbows thrown onto whatever furniture is handy…much of which is uncomfortable (they just don’t make Orgy-Friendly furniture!)

Bodies hit the floor, chairs, tables, bedstands. More people learn to puzzle onto a bed than makes sense. Moments often find pieces of yourself rubbing against another’s flesh, unintentional. So you reach out and touch – stroke, grab, tease…taste. All the while occupied in the ways of forbidden sex.

The noises are either distracting or arousing. Then all goes to hell and a flurry of jokes break loose only to be eventually muffled by body parts and the sounds of sex.

Smells. What can be said about the smells? Alcohol, smoke, the smell of women, the smell of men. It surrounds you…and you simply don’t care.

If you’re one of the pieces on the bed, puzzling out your own little corner of sex, you have to deal with another’s rhythm. Or many other rhythm’s…all rolling across the same mattress. All hitting you in strange ways. You either adapt and form a uniform movement that’s compatible with all the fucking or you get off the bed.

I prefer to lead…my rhythm is a good one. And my song is strong.

Observers float in and out. People finish and move through. You can feel strangers touching you, taking you in or wanting to take you. You either flow or just don’t.

Invitations are often eye-level only. Across a room you’ll see your next move – and you simply point yourself there.and.go.

Women have the advantage.
Men can have the most fun.

And yes…sometimes people look bored.

Love ‘em or hate ‘em…everyone should have at least 1.

-Tutivillus

I love Zippers. I’ve written about them before and have done a few photo shoots with Zipper scenes.

The process, to me, is similar to Shibari.

Concentration, instruction, planning, the correct tools, the right submissive…all things and people in their place at the right time.

Now I’m wanting to expand that, make it something more…take it to another place.

Multi-body Zipper

The mechanics are still in the works, but the thought is solid.

I want many minions, many clips, many feet of cord…and eventually? Many screams.

It WILL be glorious!

Ponies, TNG, virgins for sale and gender confused police!

DungeonPlace FetishCast Podcast! BDSM

1. Girl who sold her virginity.
2. Gender bending the new black?
3. Pony Play.
4. Age discrimination?

Kinky Word of the Day: dacrophilia

Site: secrets bdsm art gallery

Panel: Tutivillus, DE, Goddess, Sythen, Meow, Gamer

Download the podcast Here!

Here’s a fetish that simply fascinates the hell outta me.

Cephalerotica:  ”Tentacle erotica and/or Tentacle rape”

Cephalerotica

Does this turn me on? Only in the intellectual sense. It’s just one of those kinks that’s such a good twist that I can’t help but look at it and think “Wow…that’s weird and good!”

Octopussy

Not to mention it ties into my whole Cthulu thing…

Thoughts? Sound off!

Some great pictures can be found Here.

I really do need to do one of these soon.

Needle Corset

Rather than simply snapping the picture, this is a play area I haven’t journeyed much into. I do believe the time has come to change that.

Especially when one considers the opportunities for merging Sadism and Photography here.

Oh yeah. This could be a screaming good time!

HNT – Fishnets, thongs and summertime

hnt fishnet thong

Bob Basset strikes again!

Claw Gloves

Take these gloves and pair them with this mask…

Cthulu Mask

…add some dark and voila! You get some great visual scene potential!

I love it…oh yeah.

If you want to hear more about Bob Basset, we discuss him at length in Episode 1 of the DungeonPlace Podcast.

Fist

Post by SweetGeekGoddess

Fisting has always been something I have found erotic.  Really how much more at someone’s mercy can you get than to have their hand shoved up your cunt or ass?  The orgasms from fisting are incredibly intense. I would even be bold enough to describe my fisting experiences as akin to the spiritual or at the least are condusive to prayer:  “Oh God, Oh my God, Oh my fucking God, Oh sweet fucking Jesus!”

My research did not uncover any lasting ill-effects from fisting, though certainly a list of some precautionary measures do need to be taken.  I discovered some excellent articles on the topic even a few with how-to photos. The links are below.

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http://www.bdsmcentral.com/bdsm/fisting.htm

http://www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/fist.htm

http://www.holisticwisdom.com/article_sex_fisting.htm

So fellow kinksters, get out the lube and the nail clippers and start fisting your play partner today!

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photo credit: davco9200

DungeonPlace FetishCast Podcast

DungeonPlace FetishCast Podcast! BDSM

No, not really a name change, more like a better description. (It’s still a PodCast)

Since the iTunes has a tendency to drop episodes, we want to make sure you find them all.  So, here they are!

FestishCast Episode 1 – Where Jack Rinella Tortures Us All!

FestishCast Episode 2 – Sir Lord Master Domy Dom!

FetishCast Preview – Nude Photos

Fisting Discussion

SweetGeekGoddess, one of our intrepid Podcast Panelists, has a question for all of you brave enough to answer.

“Can too much Fisting cause permanent damage? And what can be done for recovery and care after Fisting?”

We know many of you out there have more knowledge than we do, so please share your discoveries!

photo credit: andyjakeman

Yes. There are so many ups.

Flogging ass, sticking needles in strange and beautiful people. Making sure strangers actually do have red blood. What are some of the strangest sexual fetishes tolerable by the folks DE and I run into?

Adding new sounds to the DungeonPlace Scream Index…

…there are more.

But there’s also a downside.

Tonight DE and I were watching an episode of Taboo; it was dedicated to “Initiation Rituals”. During the watch I got that same feeling I’ve gotten while watching a lot of these shows.

“Hmmm…I’ve seen this before – Hell, I’ve Done it!”

Hook Pull

I realize at first read that statement sounds incredibly cocky. Believe – I don’t intend to have an my ego speak for me. When you hit a certain point in this life you realize the sites you’re seeing are largely re-runs and cravings begin for episodes unseen.

Oh I’ve begun digging into mighty arcane places for my inspiration.

It’s a downside, to be sure.

But, if you’re worth a damn, it simply fuels your drive to look harder and deeper for the Scenes you’ll want to do.

Flogging a Moving Target is fun.

This Scene was created by the collaboration of Mindnbody and NickM with their mad rigging skills. Their victim? Of course it was the beautiful DarlingEvil.

My involvement was a complete surprise, since the Scene began while I was doing my turn as a DM and was relieved before the Scene ended.

Flogging a bound woman

MindnBody was busy working DE as well. Floggers, canes, quirts…for DE it was a scene that pushed her as she’s not one who’s keen on high pain.

I’m thinking it was the rope. She IS keen on rope. Rope is a smile and a tonic in her kink DNA.

Such a fun Scene…I think we need to do it again soon. Perhaps as a wedding gift.

I’m in love with gas masks. I must get some.

In Podcast Episode 1, I talked about a Gas Mask scene I participated in. Since then I’ve had a serious jones for them.

In memory of that…I submit the following pictures.

latex and barbwire nurse

Toxic Mary

Honest Abe?

Nuns with Masks and Guns

Jackle

Steampunk Mask