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Professor Tutivillus Grift discusses the merits of Vitamin Pain and a strict regime of Masochism, play and pain study.

Tags: sadist, pain, vitamin pain, bdsm, fetish, kink, kinky, sadist, sadism, masochist, masochism, pain sluts

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Where Tutivillus answers a question from listener Psyren – What is the difference between Breaking and Being Broken? Hopefully it is explained in a somewhat satisfactory manner.

Tag: bdsm, sadist, podcast, breaking, submissive, masochist, broken, pain, submission, fetish

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Meanwhile, as DarlingEvil and Tutivillus explore Japan the rest of the DungeonPlace panelists discuss revolution, anal fingering reading manuals and some of the most vile sexual depravity ever conceived by humankind!!

Tags: dungeonplace, podcast, bdsm, kink, kinky, sex, sexual, sexuality, fetish, anal, finger, whipping, flogging

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Where Tutivillus discusses the revelation of fellow podcasts and his own search.

Tags: podcast, sadist, bdsm, kink, kinky, fetish, minions, submissive, masocast, tutivillus, unspeakableaxe

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Where Tutivillus and DarlingEvil get Random in Japan. From a naked discussion in bed, pirate metal, searching for adult book stores and hanging out in the Matrix Bondage Bar with RikOsaka…we do as much as possible in a little amount of time.

Panel: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, RikOsaka, sub-Mama Ramu…everyone!

Tags: podcast, bdsm, fetish, kink, kinky, japan, osaka, love hotel, matrix club, shibari,  bdsm clubs

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Where Tutivillus straightens the record regarding his minions…and calls bullshit on fake Mentors, Collectors and folks who’ll fuck you over in exchange for things you can learn from anyone.

Tags: sadist, podcast, minions, tutivillus, mentor, mentors, collectors, education, upex, learning, kink, kinky, bdsm

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Ok, so the title may prove a little misleading. While I know many of you will be thinking about how to coat the stem and use it for beating a play partner, that’s not my intent (this time).

Someone asked me recently if it was possible to Love within the BDSM community. Before saying “DUH!” (and using my best Homer Simpson-style expression) I actually put my brain into action and kept the mouth shut…for a brief moment.  That’s because, of course it’s possible to love within the bounds of Alternative Lifestyles just as it is in any other relationship. Being in Love isn’t a Taboo despite what some may tell you. Love within BDSM is a wonderful thing. Sure, I can play without Love, but the associated trust, the extra intensity, the willingness to communicate more freely is SO much more fulfilling long term!

Do we need Love to explore, learn, grow and play with others as we explore our roles and Self expression through Kink? Nope, it’s not required at all, but there’s still a level of connection to your play partners which accompanies the energy exchange we experience. For a lot of people, that is simply enough. Then again,  you may just find Someone(s) who is/are Special, and want to devote more time specifically to them; exploring each other’s desires, needs and bodies more fully.  That won’t necessarily mean you have to give up other relationship dynamics though. Thats the beauty of Communication and trust. What do you each want? Are you going to be monogamous? Are you secure enough to allow your partner(s) play with others?  Are you and you partner able to fulfill all your needs within your immediate relationship?

Which brings me nicely to another, rather  important point. Some people may tell you that your current partner cannot get you to where you need/want to be. They may even suggest you leave them in order to achieve your full potential. While I can appreciate that is true on some levels, my inbuilt detector is charging for a cry of “BULLSHIT!!”. When someone, or maybe a group of someones, tell you that, ask them why. My guess is that you’ll get several answers but you’ll need to decide if they really do want you to grow and actually care about you (for example if your play partner is dangerously unskilled), or do they have more devious motives hidden under the guise of mentoring you ‘personally’ or I have a ‘friend’ who would be perfect to get you X-skill set/push your limits towards ‘improvement’.  Ask yourself if they may actually be attempting to recruit you so they can just fuck your brains out without being the bad-guys who go behind your partners back. I understand, that while I may not be able to get a current partner/playmate “there” right now by myself, I know someone who can help Us achieve that! There is a huge difference between doing things within the relationship and negotiating to include others, versus having someone tear the relationship apart for their own goals under the premise of helping you achieve more.

I know within my relationships, past and present, that I haven’t always had the knowledge my partner needed, or wanted to explore. I’m still challenging myself and building skills and knowledge. What I have done is explore WITH my partners, so their needs are met at the same time as I build my skill sets and knowledge about aspects of Kink I may be currently weak on. That has always strengthened my relationships, and I remain on good terms with (almost all) past Lovers and play partners. It’s that very Love we share that has us wanting to help our partners develop and to provide for them. Providing for our partners is a very basic, almost primal need in our self. It also displays our commitment to our partners, no matter how many people are in the relationship.

So, can you Love a partner within the kink and alternative lifestyles? I say from personal experience, and with certainty, Abso-bloody-lutely!

GamerUK

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Where the DungeonPlace panelists confront the realities of planning a Lesbian Gang Rape, discovering whether Kink and Romance can co-exist and if it’s possible to survive Utah Gangland Holidays.

Panelists: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Goddess, GamerUK, Sythen, Christopher, Jodi, Jeff, Misha, HeyNurse, Te, T2/Salty, MB’s Girl

Kinky Words of the day?

Listen…you’ll know.

Tags: podcast, bdsm, kink, kinky, fetish, lesbian, gang rape, fantasy, romance, love, lobbing

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Where Tutivillus and DarlingEvil discover Magical things in Far Away Lands!!

Tags: sadist, japan, bidet, bdsm, sadism, kinky, kink, fetish, sex, sexuality, tutivillus, darlingevil

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Where Goddess, GamerUK and Sythen interview the Rope Master Lew Rubens!

Panel: Goddess, GamerUK, Sythen, Lew Rubens

Visit Lew Rubens at: BoundnDetermined.com

Tags: podcast, dungeonplace, kinky, bdsm, rope, riggers, shibari, kinbaku, lew rubens, boundndetermined, kink, fetish, rope bondage

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Where Tutivillus discusses his upcoming Masochist adventure and the surprises of Japan.

Tags: sadist, tutivillus, bdsm, kink, kinky, japan, masochist, podcast,

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“Probing”

How to break the “Unbreakable”.

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DungeonPlace BurnCast 2010

Where the DungeonPlace crew ventures into the mud-filled, rainy desert to play amongst the Burners. We talk knives, spanking, fire, breasts – play with Hitachi Magic Wands, Sybians, Fisting and many orgasms.

If you’ve never been to a burn, this will at least give you some small picture of what the Kinky do when we’re there.

Regularly scheduled podcasting will return soon.

Panelists: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, GamerUK, Goddess, Sythen, HeyNurse, Misha, Jodi, Jeff, Boy Wonder, The God of Fuck

Tags: bdsm, fetish, kink, kinky, podcast, Burn, burn, utah burn, desert, rain, hitachi, sybian, orgasms, knives, spank, spanking

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Tutivillus the Knife - Photo by HeyNurse

Join the DungeonPlace crew as they celebrate Tutivillus’ 40th birthday! … in some very surprising ways. Hey! There’s even some intelligent, kinky conversation here! (Think Polyamory, small penis humiliation, flogger 101, etc.)

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Tags: Tutivillus, 40, Polyamory, Small Penis Humiliation, bdsm, podcast, fetish, man love, men kissing, woman love, women kissing

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Where a small panel discusses Trampling and various aspects of the beloved “Foot Fetish”.  Then, after a stiff drink, we tackle the dreaded issue of…

Parenting, 24/7 D/s relationships and step-children…etc. Is it a good idea? Can it be done? If so, how do you do it?

SOTW: http://islandofpain.com/

KWOTD: Cypriphillia – The abnormal affection towards venereal disease.

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(Note: BDSM play and alcohol DO NOT mix! Take proper precautions if you choose to play when alcohol is involved.)

Where the DungeonPlace panel (and friends) celebrate Novice’s birthday and Bacchanalia with drink, nudity, Violet Wand bacon frying (on the leg of Tutivillus), pole dancing and tattoo tenderizing!

All documented for your pleasure.

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Tags: podcast,bdsm,fetish,kink,birthday,pole dancing,drunk,naked,boobs,bacon,Bacchanalia

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Where the panel gives praise to email (and our listeners!), Ms Rocky Mountain Olympus Leather,  Tackles the fun and risks of blood play, Exposes the paths to Creative Kink, looks at naked French Women (in latex!) and runs from two dogs in a tub.

• Site of the day: French Girls by JG http://www.gouvrion.com/news/

Panelists: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Sythen, Gamer UK, SweetGeekGoddess, JujuBees, LScribbens, Lucretia McEvil

Tags: podcast, fetishcast, fetish, kink, bdsm, sex, sexuality, bdsm podcast, kinky podcast, fetish podcast, leather, rocky mountain olympus leather, leather competition, blood play, blood, creative kink, creative, two dogs in a tub

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I lost an old, dear friend this weekend.

…my `96 Jeep Cherokee finally went to a place I could not follow. What does this have to do with BDSM? This was a vehicle that carted around untold amounts of gear, transported DE and I to many, many parties, gatherings, photo shoots, nasty-evil-borderline-illegal places and served as mobile sex platform that left me with scars.

The Green Death is dead. May it have another life elsewhere.

The worst bit, however, is WHEN it happened. The day I was to help Sythen with her performance in the Rocky Mountain Olympus contest.

She won. I’d like to think she won because I was not present to screw up her scene.

I know, however, that she won because Sythen is one of the most knowledgeable, kind (that’s relative!) and incredible Leather Folk I have ever met.

So, things may blow up, but even that can leave some amazing after effects.

Congratulations my friend.

I am so proud of you and your accomplishments!

-Tutivillus

DungeonPlace Podcast Episode 24

We have scoured the Internet to give you the ULTIMATE Fetish/BDSM Social Site roundup and review.

The Ultimate Fetish Social Site Roundup!

• Collarme.com – Old, busted, done…thoughts?
• Alt.com – Fetish, BDSM dating. Was once mighty, now more of a scavenger site. Would LOVE to see it return to its former glory.
• Bondage.com – An older, slower version of Fetlife
• Fetlife.com – The current king (Not dating, social and and informative)
• Fetspank.com – Fetish Social Ranking Site (Digg of Fetish)
• DungeonTalk.com – Appears to be dead or coughing blood
• TheSlaveRegister.com – A great resource. Register a slave, meet others. Good times ensue!
• InformedConsent.co.uk — Don’t know a thing -thoughts?

Listen for the Site of the Day and Kinky Word of the Day!

Tags: podcast, fetish, fetishcast, kinky, kink, bdsm social site roundup, fetish social site roundup, kinky social site roundup, fetlife, alt.com, fetspank, dungeontalk, the slave register, informed consent

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This is not an “Anti-Polyamory” post — but it may upset a few people.

Alright, you’ve been warned.

I’ve watched, carefully, over the years to see what happens in the poly relationships I’ve witnessed. What I’ve seen has been tragic (with 2 or 3 exceptions)…and I really only know 1 family that’s managed to pull off a “Long-Term” poly relationship.

A few others were great for a year or two before some form of amicable split. Most just went down in flames and took a lot of victims with them.

My question here is simple:

“When do you call Poly a personal failure and move on?”

“Do you just keep on trying? Or redefine and create relationships of a different type?”

I look forward to the answers!

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Tags: poly, polyamory, relationships

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Confinement without cages? Fighting your own Humiliation demons – From the top down??

Want a fetish site you’ll NEVER forget?

Rock on with Episode 23 of the DungeonPlace FetishCast!

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Tags: podcast, dungeon, bdsm, kink, kiny, fetish, fetishcast, bondage, confinement, humiliation, demons, porn, sex, sexuality

Blood, Thighs and Play -

Blood Play

Give us a cup of blood and a brush and you’ll get a bed full of fun. Hell! Add a knife (so long as you’re not mixing blood…) and the fun quotient grows.

Blood changes over seconds and minutes. It blends and dries and cracks; grows darker and contrasts the skin. A beautiful thing. Primal and powerful.

Learn how to harness it and let go! God I love it!

Tags: blood play, blood, bdsm, fetish, kink, kinky, thighs, play

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It’s not all fun and games on the DungeonPlace podcast this week as the panel talks about experimenting on the masses with electricity, Milgram, broadening your BDSM experience…all in Part 1 of Episode 23.

• “A Modern Twist to Milgrams Shocking Experiment”
  • http://ac360.blogs.cnn.com/2010/03/17/a-modern-twist-to-milgrims-shocking-experiment/
  • http://www.stanleymilgram.com/

• How do you broaden your experience?
  • http://www.altsexclasses.com/

Tags: podcast, bdsm, fetish, kink, kinky, milgram, french game shows, electricity, experience, fetishcast

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Part 2! Where the DungeonPlace panel learns the shocking truth behind Dick Bullets, cumming not being enough, the manufacturing of Pain Sluts and what web sites turn us on! (Hint…Asian women on a timer!)

Oh…and we like being thrown through windows!

Favorite Kinky Porn Sites: Which ones get your motor running?

kink.com

http://www.avtokei.jp/

kinkymedical.net

boundndetermined.com

fetlife.com

hogtied.com

Kinky Word of The Day: Defenestration: “ is the act of throwing someone or something out of a window.^[1] The term “defenestration” was coined around the time of an incident in Prague Castle in the year 1618. The word comes from the Latin de- (from) and fenestra (window or opening). http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Defenestration

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Panel: Tutivillus, Misha, HeyNurse, Goddess, Sythen, SyrBigDog, Aine32, Lscribbens

Tags: podcast, fetishcast, kinky podcast, fetish podcast, kevin smith, smodcast, dick bullets, bdsm, fetish, kink, kinky, pain sluts, cumming, asian women, avtokei, fetlife, kink.com

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Support Sythen!

www.rockymountainolympus.com

Listener Suggestion:

• When Master and slave have been together for some time and the slave has been trained, how do you keep it going? @CareID69

Topic 2:

• Stepping Up and Stepping Out: Taking charge of your Kink – It’s time to play in public without fear or apprehension!

Stay tuned next week for part 2!

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Panel: Tutivillus, Misha, HeyNurse, Goddess, Sythen, SyrBigDog, Aine32, Lscribbens

Tags: podcast, kink, kinky, fetish, bdsm, master, slave, training, play, confidence, fear, apprehension, rocky mountain olympus

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The podcast episode where Tutivillus discusses sadism, pain, pain sluts, PETA and Tofu Frogs.

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Tags: sadist, sadism, podcast, bdsm, fetish, kinky, kink, pain, pain sluts, peta, tofu frog

Fire, Flesh and Nipples

Take a picture in a very dark room (make it pitch black). Put a beautiful model in that dark, let the flames fly and open the shutter.

This is what you get.

When it comes to play I love fire. Yes, it’s great as a tool on skin – but it’s even better when used on the mind. Your submissive doesn’t even need to see it.

The sound.

The heat…the mind magnifies a flame and twists it into a skin crisping inferno.

The body strains against bonds. Mouths stretch around the gag in muffled protests … or screams. Eyes widen white.

The blood pumps.

Fire matures a scene.

Beautiful!

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Tags: fire, flame, bdsm, kink, fetish, photography, gags, screams, bonds, bound

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We’re proud to have Unspeakableaxe from the Masocast podcast  (www.masocast.com) joining us for a simulcast.

Please to enjoy!

Topics

• Subjecting three kinky women to Chat Roulette (pre-roll) (www.chatroulette.com)
• Let’s play “Compare the Kink!”
  • Describe the “Lifestyle scene” in New York and in Utah. Let’s contrast the differences, if any.
• Rumors of Thunder In The Mountain’s demise – A great loss or simply the progression of things?
  • Thoughts?
  • Are there TOO MANY “Events?”
• Rihanna’s gonna play a Dominatrix…do we really need another (half-assed, over hyped) portrayal of our kink in the Mass Media?
  • If you’re gonna do it, do it right!
  • http://www.stuff.co.nz/entertainment/3332189/Rihanna-to-play-dominatrix

Panelists: Unspeakableaxe, Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Sythen, Goddess, Gamer, Juju_Bee, LScribbens, Minx, SyrBigDog, Aine43

Tags: podcast, masocast, dungeonplace, kink, kinky women, new york, utah, bdsm, fetish, kinky podcast, fetish podcast, thunder in the mountains, dominatrix, rihanna, lifestyle

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Myspace, Facebook, Twitter, Wave, Buzz, Messenger, Yahoo? How many do you use? And, perhaps more importantly, how many do you use to look for/contact partners with?

With online dating, and instant conversations,  I wonder if  ’ The age of deception’  wasn’t reborn?  We are able to chase the partner of our dreams and find them (anywhere in the World), although unless you web-cam, or meet up, the person using pixels could well be deceiving you in some way.  While they could just be shy, they can also be a vastly different age, height, weight, could be a vice-squad sting team looking for pedophiles, or lying about what sex/orientation they are.

Does that really matter? Are you looking for a hookup? Then the truth probably matters a fair bit. If I was wanting sex with a beautiful, younger, athletic, intellectual women I’ve clicked with online and be tapped on the shoulder by Bernard, an older guy with receding hairline, bad teeth and severe B.O. I’d be angered because I’d been lied to, and it’s not what I’m after. I’m pretty open minded and will happily have a conversation with anyone no matter their sexual orientation (pedophiles need not apply) but I also know what pushes my buttons when it comes to arousal.

However, if you’re looking to have your senses stimulated by the above “beautiful, younger, athletic, intellectual women” then if you’re not seeing ‘her’ or actually going to meet up, then who cares if Bernard is getting his rocks off at the same time, pretending to be his alter-ego and swapping deviant desires and getting jiggy with you?

The point is, to look at what you want and create the encounter that satisfies on the level you want/need (and yes, for all involved). Cyber may not be the complete answer to real life sexual and BDSM encounters, but circumstance or ‘simple’ shyness may require a release in a more discreet manner. I suggest everyone should at least try cyber. Even if it’s not as fulfilling as you expect or want, it can be a fun option.

After all, isn’t the path to great sex/kink achieved through mental build up of some sort?

- Gamer

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Topic 1: Is Collaring really necessary?

• If you’ve got a sea full-o-fish, why bother? (This is a devil’s argument)

Topic 2: How (NOT) to approach someone in an Open Relationship for sex – even if they’re Male! (The Drunk Dialed Booty Call)

Topic 3: Sex Dolls and artificial intelligence

• How does that differ from Master/slave relationships?
• http://www.slate.com/id/2243580/
• http://www.veronicabelmont.com/2010/02/more-on-roxxxy-the-sexbot/
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Mori_Uncanny_Valley.svg
• http://www.realdoll.com/

Kinky Word of The Day: Lygerastia - Lygerastia refers to the inability to become sexually aroused unless it is dark.

Site of The Day: http://www.letsmasturbate.com/

Panelists: Tutuivillus, DarlingEvil, Goddess, Gamer, Aine, SyrBigDog, Misha, Sythen, LScribbens

Tags: podcast, kink, fetish, kinky, collars, collaring, open relationships, drunk dial, booty call, real doll, bondage, dungeon, dungeonplace, sex dolls, ai, artificial intelligence, lygerastia, masturbate, masturbation

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As if Privacy wasn’t already a complex concern already, here comes the next nightmare for those of us who wish to keep our lives to ourselves.

Google Goggles. What is it? (Hint: NOT Google Mail Goggles)
http://www.google.com/mobile/goggles

Facial Recognition is already a fact of life. Law Enforcement, Intelligence and Military organizations have used it for years. It hasn’t hit full public use, yet — but it’s only a matter of time. I for one am not a huge fan of sitting in a room, waiting for a job interview while someone snaps a picture and lets my face do the searching for them.

Does that sound paranoid? Really? I am proud of who and what I am, but it’s my business. If I care to share it with anyone, that’s my business. It is not the business of the corporate world unless I’m purposely doing something to harm those with whom I have a professional relationship.

Below is some basic research on Google Goggles and the reason behind my growing irritation.

• A picture is worth a thousand words.
• No need to type your search anymore. Just take a picture.
• Find out what businesses are nearby. Just point your phone at a store.
• This is just the beginning – it’s not quite perfect yet.
• Works well for some things, but not for all.
• Your pictures, your control. Turn on ‘visual search history’ to view or share your pictures at any time. Turn it off to discard them once the search is done.

Available on phones that run Android 1.6+
GG will move to other platforms: http://bit.ly/5tPWzR

“It is our intention to quickly develop Goggles for the most popular mobile handsets and platforms,” Google’s Katie Watson tells me. “Unfortunately, we don’t have a specific time frame to share.”
Hands-on tour – http://bit.ly/5d02sB

Up to 1,000 photos are retained in your Google Goggles search history.
The Google Goggles search history is not related to your Google search history

Privacy: “Google indicates, the Goggles app retains your IP address and Google account details for five weeks in order to help “keep the service stable and secure.”

“If you’re worried about privacy, Google Goggles gives you two options: You can discard all of your images as you go, or you can save them in a searchable history. Selecting the searchable history option makes the images available to Google, separate from any personal data, for the purpose of improving the service. Aside from that, Google indicates, the Goggles app retains your IP address and Google account details for five weeks in order to help “keep the service stable and secure.” – http://bit.ly/5tPWzR
Facial Recognition?

Google has decided to not allow people to use its new visual search tool, Google Goggles, to identify people for fear of a privacy backlash (for now) – http://bit.ly/4Tu7qa

Marissa Mayer, vice president of Google’s Search Product and User Experience, revealed to The Telegraph exclusively at LeWeb 2009 in Paris, that Google Goggles will simply ignore people’s faces if people tried to apply the same technology to identify individuals rather than places or objects.
“Until we understand the implications of the facial recognition tool we have decided to make sure we block out people’s faces. We need to really understand how this tool affects people’s privacy and cannot change that decision until we do,” she explained.”

So, obviously it can do it now. Is it cataloging search results for fine-tuning until it’s released?

More words on this? http://bit.ly/88DFuu

Google spokesman Anthony House said: ‘We do have the relevant facial recognition technology at our disposal. For instance with our Picasa picture service a user can tag a friend in their photo album and it will search for and tag any other pictures of that person.

‘But we haven’t implemented this on Google Goggles because we want to consider the privacy implications and how this feature might be added responsibly.

‘So if someone uploads a picture of a stranger on Goggles there is no process to identify them and the search will come up with “no matches found.”

‘We will have talks with privacy advocates and consumers before we consider any changes – it may be people want such a service, but we don’t have a rigid timescale on when any decisions will be made.’

The controversy comes as Google CEO Eric Schmidt was lambasted by an Internet Privacy watchdog for some off hand remarks he made to the U.S news channel CNBC.

He was asked whether people should treat Google like a trusted friend. In his answer he said: ‘If you have something that you don’t want anyone to know, maybe you shouldn’t be doing it in the first place.’

So, decide. Do you like the idea of someone taking a picture of you and being able to see what the Internet has to offer on your face, identity, etc.

Start adding the small worries of this little graph.

“Around 70% of hiring managers in in US have rejected candidate just because of their online reputation. The chart looks at the various types of online information that have led companies to reject candidates.”

No thanks. I want the option to opt-out of this one.

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Listener suggestion!

• From Twitter – careid69: “How to keep the intensity after the training is complete”

• Anatomy of a roleplaying scene? – there’s probably more people like myself who are interested in roleplaying but just don’t know how to go about actually doing one (and how to alleviate the self-consciousness of it perhaps).
  • “Remember that role playing is not simply about being someone else for an evening; it helps both of you divulge preferences that you may otherwise not reveal. Although you’re behaving like someone else, these kinds of games give away your true interests”
  • http://www.lovingyou.com/content/passion/passionplay-content.php?ART=roleplaying
  • http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1354350/sexy_role_playing_costumes.html
  • http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip/46b_love_tip.html
  • http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roleplaying
  • http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_roleplay
  • Plus a DEMO!
• Dealing with Mistakes in a Scene

The Burn Report! A very brief report and account of making a theme camp at the Utah Burn. Once a Month update until the Big Weekend.

• What we’re planning on building (furniture)
• And some of the inside details of planning a Theme Camp for Kinksters

Kinky Word of the Day

Sapiosexuality: To become attracted to or sexually aroused by intelligence and its use.

SOTD: My Bottom Smarts: http://bottomsmarts.blogspot.com/

Panel: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Goddess, Sythen, Misha, LScribbens

Tags: podcast, roleplaying, role playing, kink, kinky, bdsm, bondage, nuns, burn, burning man, utah burn, element 11, sapiosexuality, spanking, theme camp,  mistakes, reputation, intensity, training, defile

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Where Tutivillus speaks of Sadism vs. being a True Sadist. Classes and partners of Sadists witnessing a Sadist unleashed. Listen to Tutivillus speak through numb lips…after a visit to the dentist.

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• What is abuse in a kink/BDSM relationship?
• Is there a difference between abuse in the ‘vanilla’ and kink community?
• What do we do about abuse in the Kink/BDSM Community?

Utah 2009 report on Domestic Violence: http://media.bonnint.net/slc/1702/170296/17029623.pdf

National Leather Association Domestic Violence Project: http://www.nlaidvproject.us/
The vision of the NLA-I Domestic Violence Project is to create a national and international network to provide information, appropriate referrals, resources, and safe shelters for those in the world community who have been subjected to abusive and violent BDSM relationships and who are seeking a way out of those relationships or who require a more extensive support network than is otherwise available to them.

Site of the day: http://www.thenetworklared.org/smvsabuse.htm

This is the site we used to define abuse in Kink, S/M and BDSM relationships for this episodes of the podcast.

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If you have anything you’d like to add to this discussion.

Panel: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Scarlett, Goddess, Novice

Tags: podcast, abuse, bdsm, kinky, s/m, relationships, abusive relationships, bdsm abuse, kink abuse, support network, fetishcast, dungeonplace, domestic violence, vanilla, national leather association

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I enjoy listening to as many other Kinky podcasts as possible. One of my favorites is the Masocast. Very enlightening!

His episode “Reaction Junkie” had a particular impact.  This is the excerpt:

A conversation with Sascha about different kinds of non-monogamy, advice for men who email her, merging her halves and more.

Pretty much every one of those talking points…spoke to me. I always struggle to define (or NOT define) my non-monogamy, I am baffled by some of the communication from the people who contact me (both men and women) and walking with an animal inside is always a good time.

Listen to it. There is MUCH insight. Get familiar with the host. You can find him on Twitter: @unspeakableaxe. We’re also trading interviews before too long!

Let me know what you think.

Tags: masocast, non monogamy, bdsm, unspeakableaxe, kink, kinky, sex, sexuality, podcasts, masochist

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Yes, it’s a very common fetish, but I’ve got it. I have that strange fascination with looking (leering in a dumbfounded, brain-addled gaze) at naked Asian women.

Does that make me…”wrong”?

Nah! Take a look for yourself!

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Tags: bdsm, asian model, fetish, kink, erotic photos, pics

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A funny thing happened while recording this episode. The dog (yeah, a real dog who wanders about the house while we record these podcasts) knocked over the recorder. We caught it, but didn’t realize we’d hit the pause button. So this episode cuts off at around 49 minutes.

To help make up for this atrocity, I’ve included the pre-show.

The dog has now been banned from future recordings.

• Topic 1: Reader Question Hey, have been listening to the episode 1 re-release and it got me thinking. I’ve never been to a play party, in fact I only went to my first fetish event (the Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar) 3 months ago with my Master, and while I want to play publically and go to events like that, it terrifies me. However, the reason it scares me is because I’m worried that people will judge me because I don’t look like I belong in the scene. I’m a girly girl, I like to follow fashion, I wear a fair amount of pink and I’m generic in every other aspect of life apart from my kink. I am aware that that sounds pretty judgemental in itself because I’m sure loads of kinksters are exactly the same, but when we went to the BBB 90% of the people there were obviously kinky or gothic, etc. So basically my question is: should I be terrified? and Should I dress differently at fetish events?
• Topic 2: Insert Here! Your favorite Kink-related Insertable play!
• Topic 3: (For the Panel) What’s your Kinky New Year’s Resolution/Goal?

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You’ve gotta love IO9 and their Fetish Posts. Giant woman love is fun! Check it out!

The Larger-Than-Life Sex Lives Of Giant Women [NSFW]

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Portable, easily concealable Suspension Tripods are a goal sought by many a Kink! There’s a Great discussion going on over at Fetlife about them.

If you are willing to spend a bit of cash (not much, really) and take the time to learn, here’s the basics you’ll need to know.

BondageLessons.com has a rundown on the materials and techniques. See the page Here.

YouTube has a great video showing us all how to tie a tripod. I’ve included it below.

This really is a cool bit of technique for anyone interested in building a basic, portable suspension rig.

Just remember…BE CAREFUL!! And you do this at your own risk. Any suspension is dangerous and DungeonPlace.com takes no responsibility for your actions.

Have fun!

Tags: bondage, suspension, rigging, rigger, rope, suspension tripod, bdsm, fetish

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• Topic 1 (RANT ON!!) :Is Mental Illness an excuse for Bad Behavior in the Kink Community?
• Topic 2: Sensory deprivation play. heightened senses when some senses are blocked/countered? Curious about expanding this play. Limited experience but the experiments I’ve tried have been ‘interesting’. Opinions sought – will post info as I find more.
• Topic 3: What do you want Santa Claws to put in your BDSM Christmas stocking this year?

Site of the Day: http://www.canvasalive.com/japanpages/japan1.htm
KWOTD: amychophilia: being scratched

Panelists: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Goddess, GamerUK, Sythen

Tags: podcast, bdsm, fetish, kink, kinky, dungeonplace, mental illness, sensory deprivation, toys, amychophilia, scratching, body paint

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In Episode 15 of the Fetishcast (that’s our Podcast), we talked about Mezophilia. What the hell is that? Well! It’s the sexual arousal from breasts!

Now the question is this…is it real? (Besides just the regular Titty fascination.)

Nexus Newspapers wrote a great article entitled “Beauty and the breast” that nuzzles right into this topic.

“If there’s any elegance, design, and comfort in the universe—as all of our art, praise, and worship seem to unceasingly suggest—so much of it is found in these curiously haunting curves.

Are we a breast-obsessed culture? Breast fetishism, called mazophilia, involves a psychological and sexual interest amongst men and women for female breasts.”

I ask you this question…are we breast obsessed?

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The Episode where Tutivillus becomes Sadistic Man Whore!

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Topic 1: The psychology of terror play.
Fear is divided into two stages, biochemical and emotional. The biochemical response is universal, while the emotional response is highly individualized.
http://www.lutz-sanfilippo.com/library/counseling/lsffear.html

Topic 2: Role with it, baby!
Is there more to your role than just your title?

Viewer call.
Site of the day: Passionandsoul.com
Kinky word of the day: Mazophilia: Sexual arousal gained from women’s breasts.

Panel: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Sythen, Sweetgeekgoddess, Gamer UK.

Tags: bdsm, podcast, terror play, roles, lee harrington, kinky, fetish, kink, bondage, facesitting, mazophilia, breasts

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Are you monogamous? Was it a conscious decision?

Naturally, you’re not monogamous – but you can choose to be

“First, there can be no serious debate about whether monogamy is natural for human beings. It isn’t. A Martian zoologist visiting planet Earth would have no doubt: Homo sapiens carry all the evolutionary stigmata of a mildly polygamous mammal with both sexes having a penchant for occasional ”extra-pair copulations”.”

Interesting read…interesting conclusions. What are your thoughts?

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A great article for the “Privacy Conscious”.

How To Remove Your Most Embarrassing Moments from Google.

“Different folks certainly have different tolerance levels for their online persona and how public they want it to be, but thankfully, there are tips to ensure that your boss, your ex, or your mildly interested former friends can keep tabs on you on your terms.”

We, as Kinks, need to consider such things. Read and learn!

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©Tutivillus Sadist Podcast

Tutivillus recounts a scene where he may have gone a little too far…and risked grievous personal injury at the hands of a violated vegetarian in a coffin.

(Humor! Tutivillus plays safely and respects limits)

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Tags: sadist, podcast, bdsm, sadism, kinky, fetish, vegetarian, coffin, bondage, torture, restraint, screams, meat, balls, ass, tazer, shock, play party, play, lee harrington

FetishCast

Children in a Kinky household – Where is the line between “safe” and “dangerous” exposure when it comes to 24/7 relationships?

Interview with Luna from Submissiveguide.com

Panel:

Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Goddess, Gamer, Meow.

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It is often in images that we find fire.

Weight-less

And from fire comes inspiration.

Worship

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