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It's true! Domination is serious fucking business!Thanks Gryphon!
It's true! Domination is serious fucking business!
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We’re proud to have Unspeakableaxe from the Masocast podcast (www.masocast.com) joining us for a simulcast.
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Panelists: Unspeakableaxe, Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Sythen, Goddess, Gamer, Juju_Bee, LScribbens, Minx, SyrBigDog, Aine43
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I read Charlie Brooker's article in the Guardian "Why I'm an ebook convert" and a particular passage struck me.
"…But the single biggest advantage to the ebook is this: no one can see what you're reading. You can mourn the loss of book covers all you want, but once again I say to you: no one can see what you're reading. This is a giant leap forward, one that frees you up to read whatever you want without being judged by the person sitting opposite you on the tube.
…The lack of a cover immediately alters your purchasing habits…I went on a virtual shopping spree, starting with the stuff I thought I should read – Wolf Hall, that kind of thing – but quickly found myself downloading titles I'd be too embarrassed to buy in a shop or publicly read on a bus."
Damn! A bit of the Revolution I love! Finally we can all pretend to be the adults we wish our governments and leaders would allow us to be! No more Plain Brown Wrappers, no! We can sit with our eReaders and silently order whatever the hell we want!
…including blogs…like ours! You could read the posts, view the pictures and Listen to the podcast! all on that wonderful device.
Sure…it's pretty much a monochrome flat for now, but that's changing – quickly.
What are your thoughts on this?
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Myspace, Facebook, Twitter, Wave, Buzz, Messenger, Yahoo? How many do you use? And, perhaps more importantly, how many do you use to look for/contact partners with?
With online dating, and instant conversations, I wonder if ’ The age of deception’ wasn’t reborn? We are able to chase the partner of our dreams and find them (anywhere in the World), although unless you web-cam, or meet up, the person using pixels could well be deceiving you in some way. While they could just be shy, they can also be a vastly different age, height, weight, could be a vice-squad sting team looking for pedophiles, or lying about what sex/orientation they are.
Does that really matter? Are you looking for a hookup? Then the truth probably matters a fair bit. If I was wanting sex with a beautiful, younger, athletic, intellectual women I’ve clicked with online and be tapped on the shoulder by Bernard, an older guy with receding hairline, bad teeth and severe B.O. I’d be angered because I’d been lied to, and it’s not what I’m after. I’m pretty open minded and will happily have a conversation with anyone no matter their sexual orientation (pedophiles need not apply) but I also know what pushes my buttons when it comes to arousal.
However, if you’re looking to have your senses stimulated by the above “beautiful, younger, athletic, intellectual women” then if you’re not seeing ‘her’ or actually going to meet up, then who cares if Bernard is getting his rocks off at the same time, pretending to be his alter-ego and swapping deviant desires and getting jiggy with you?
The point is, to look at what you want and create the encounter that satisfies on the level you want/need (and yes, for all involved). Cyber may not be the complete answer to real life sexual and BDSM encounters, but circumstance or ’simple’ shyness may require a release in a more discreet manner. I suggest everyone should at least try cyber. Even if it’s not as fulfilling as you expect or want, it can be a fun option.
After all, isn’t the path to great sex/kink achieved through mental build up of some sort?
- Gamer

Many of us (Kinksters) have multiple email (Gmail) accounts.
Use the account that is NOT connected to your Vanilla Life!!!
It is that simple.
For example, I got Buzz before most people (don’t ask, Google likes me). Once activated I saw what it did…oh yes, I saw. Immediately I used Google Labs to export my carefully crafted filters into one of my other accounts that was more suited to my Kink Life.
Once complete, I imported the Contacts I wanted into that account.
Voila! Now I was ready to activate Buzz in that account. Bang and Presto! I was buzzing in kink safety.
I also switched the email addresses of any associated accounts (Twitter, etc.) that I was pulling into my Buzz feed to use ONLY the new Gmail address.
Another helpful hint?
I used two browsers (both operating in Privacy Mode) to log into both Gmail accounts simultaneously. This made the above processes MUCH easier and faster to complete.
Have fun!
-Tutivillus
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