Mar 9 2010

DungeonPlace Podcast Episode 22 Pt 1: Get Up, Get Out!

Tutivillus
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Support Sythen!

www.rockymountainolympus.com

Listener Suggestion:

  • When Master and slave have been together for some time and the slave has been trained, how do you keep it going? @CareID69

Topic 2:

  • Stepping Up and Stepping Out: Taking charge of your Kink – It’s time to play in public without fear or apprehension!

Stay tuned next week for part 2!

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Panel: Tutivillus, Misha, HeyNurse, Goddess, Sythen, SyrBigDog, Aine32, Lscribbens

Tags: podcast, kink, kinky, fetish, bdsm, master, slave, training, play, confidence, fear, apprehension, rocky mountain olympus


Mar 3 2010

Sadist Podcast Episode 9 – Tofu Frog

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©Tutivillus Sadist Podcast

The podcast episode where Tutivillus discusses sadism, pain, pain sluts, PETA and Tofu Frogs.

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Tags: sadist, sadism, podcast, bdsm, fetish, kinky, kink, pain, pain sluts, peta, tofu frog


Mar 2 2010

Fire, Flesh, Nipples

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Fire, Flesh and Nipples

Take a picture in a very dark room (make it pitch black). Put a beautiful model in that dark, let the flames fly and open the shutter.

This is what you get.

When it comes to play I love fire. Yes, it’s great as a tool on skin – but it’s even better when used on the mind. Your submissive doesn’t even need to see it.

The sound.

The heat…the mind magnifies a flame and twists it into a skin crisping inferno.

The body strains against bonds. Mouths stretch around the gag in muffled protests … or screams. Eyes widen white.

The blood pumps.

Fire matures a scene.

Beautiful!

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Tags: fire, flame, bdsm, kink, fetish, photography, gags, screams, bonds, bound


Feb 28 2010

Pain is a Reflection

Tutivillus
Pain is a reflection.

Think of it as something deep and unknown. A thing of intelligence that lives deep. A thing of power, needing to be coaxed out – released. It’s a reflection of many aspects of you – the pieces and bits that built you. When I cause you pain I see the reflections of my own pain shimmering back at me.
When it all comes out, we’re just not too much different.
There are so many people writing and reflecting about their pain…the meanings of it. Why do they want it? What is the significance of this desire, this craving for pain?
The answer?
Feel it, let go.
You’ll know soon enough.
-Tutivillus

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Feb 25 2010

Pain Slut

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It has been a little over a year that I began my journey into the realm of BDSM. I have been noticing lately some interesting conversations on various message boards that have me reflecting upon my past and current experiences. One question in particular struck a chord for me: “Am I really a pain slut?” I can certainly empathize with the confusion that was expressed in that particular post. I remember clearly when I was first confronted with what was to my mind an unacceptable part of my nature. Tutivillus had just administered my first real beating which I admitted at the time I enjoyed immensely. It confused me greatly how good it felt to be hurt. When we first negotiated the scene, I was intrigued by the bondage and only mildly curious about the pain. It took me by surprise how turned on I was to his hand and paddle striking my bared bottom. With each ‘whack’ I became more in tune to not only Tutivillus but to my own body, my own mind and my own heart. It took me several days to come to peace with the possibility that I was a lover of pain. I was as yet unconvinced that it was indeed a reality.

During these past twelve months, I continued exploring the darker side of myself. I have always known I adored bondage and rope, but learning about pain took a great deal of courage as well as a level of self-acceptance. Not one to shrink from self-discovery I began experimenting with different types of pain and sensation play. I discovered that I enjoyed the ‘whack’ of a paddle very much, but the sting of a single tail, left me a whimpering coward. I learned that I adore the bite of clothes pins and nipple clamps and even more so to have them ripped off me. As I began to reconcile the societal conditioning that “pain = bad”, I gave my self permission to enjoy all of the sensations that my Dom offered me. As I embraced, the pain I discovered the new heights that I could be taken to sexually. I look forward to the feel of my Dom’s hand whether he gives me pleasure or pain. I crave the touch of his paddle, the feel of his clamps on my breasts, his teeth biting, the ropes burning my wrists. The pain contrasts and heightens the pleasure he gives. The administering of pain has forged a bond of trust with my Dom, that I didn’t realize could exist between two people. Now a year later, I am no longer conflicted but fully accept who and what I am. I am a pain slut and I revel in the knowledge.


Feb 23 2010

DungeonPlace Podcast Episode 21: DungeonPlace and Masocast – The Unholy Podcast Union

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We’re proud to have Unspeakableaxe from the Masocast podcast  (www.masocast.com) joining us for a simulcast.

Please to enjoy!

Topics

  • Subjecting three kinky women to Chat Roulette (pre-roll) (www.chatroulette.com)
  • Let’s play “Compare the Kink!”
    • Describe the “Lifestyle scene” in New York and in Utah. Let’s contrast the differences, if any.
  • Rumors of Thunder In The Mountain’s demise – A great loss or simply the progression of things?
    • Thoughts?
    • Are there TOO MANY “Events?”
  • Rihanna’s gonna play a Dominatrix…do we really need another (half-assed, over hyped) portrayal of our kink in the Mass Media?

Panelists: Unspeakableaxe, Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Sythen, Goddess, Gamer, Juju_Bee, LScribbens, Minx, SyrBigDog, Aine43

Tags: podcast, masocast, dungeonplace, kink, kinky women, new york, utah, bdsm, fetish, kinky podcast, fetish podcast, thunder in the mountains, dominatrix, rihanna, lifestyle

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Feb 11 2010

Google Buzz and Privacy for Kinks

Tutivillus

You have undoubtedly heard about this Slayer of Social Networks. If you’ve been reading the hype, you’ve probably heard about the “Privacy Flaws” hidden within the Buzz. (Excellent Rant, BTW!)Yes…you need to take care with Buzz and you need to go under the hood to tweak the settings. A lot of Sites have already covered that…but I’ll go one step further.

Many of us (Kinksters) have multiple email (Gmail) accounts.

Use the account that is NOT connected to your Vanilla Life!!!

It is that simple.

For example, I got Buzz before most people (don’t ask, Google likes me). Once activated I saw what it did…oh yes, I saw. Immediately I used Google Labs to export my carefully crafted filters into one of my other accounts that was more suited to my Kink Life.

Once complete, I imported the Contacts I wanted into that account.

Voila! Now I was ready to activate Buzz in that account. Bang and Presto! I was buzzing in kink safety.

I also switched the email addresses of any associated accounts (Twitter, etc.) that I was pulling into my Buzz feed to use ONLY the new Gmail address.

Another helpful hint?

I used two browsers (both operating in Privacy Mode) to log into both Gmail accounts simultaneously. This made the above processes MUCH easier and faster to complete.

Have fun!

-Tutivillus

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Tags: google, buzz, privacy, bdsm, kinky, social networking


Jan 28 2010

Google Goggles and Privacy?

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As if Privacy wasn’t already a complex concern already, here comes the next nightmare for those of us who wish to keep our lives to ourselves.

Google Goggles. What is it? (Hint: NOT Google Mail Goggles)
http://www.google.com/mobile/goggles

Facial Recognition is already a fact of life. Law Enforcement, Intelligence and Military organizations have used it for years. It hasn’t hit full public use, yet — but it’s only a matter of time. I for one am not a huge fan of sitting in a room, waiting for a job interview while someone snaps a picture and lets my face do the searching for them.

Does that sound paranoid? Really? I am proud of who and what I am, but it’s my business. If I care to share it with anyone, that’s my business. It is not the business of the corporate world unless I’m purposely doing something to harm those with whom I have a professional relationship.

Below is some basic research on Google Goggles and the reason behind my growing irritation.

  • A picture is worth a thousand words.
  • No need to type your search anymore. Just take a picture.
  • Find out what businesses are nearby. Just point your phone at a store.
  • This is just the beginning – it’s not quite perfect yet.
  • Works well for some things, but not for all.
  • Your pictures, your control. Turn on ‘visual search history’ to view or share your pictures at any time. Turn it off to discard them once the search is done.

Available on phones that run Android 1.6+
GG will move to other platforms: http://bit.ly/5tPWzR

“It is our intention to quickly develop Goggles for the most popular mobile handsets and platforms,” Google’s Katie Watson tells me. “Unfortunately, we don’t have a specific time frame to share.”
Hands-on tour – http://bit.ly/5d02sB

Up to 1,000 photos are retained in your Google Goggles search history.
The Google Goggles search history is not related to your Google search history

Privacy: “Google indicates, the Goggles app retains your IP address and Google account details for five weeks in order to help “keep the service stable and secure.”

“If you’re worried about privacy, Google Goggles gives you two options: You can discard all of your images as you go, or you can save them in a searchable history. Selecting the searchable history option makes the images available to Google, separate from any personal data, for the purpose of improving the service. Aside from that, Google indicates, the Goggles app retains your IP address and Google account details for five weeks in order to help “keep the service stable and secure.” – http://bit.ly/5tPWzR
Facial Recognition?

Google has decided to not allow people to use its new visual search tool, Google Goggles, to identify people for fear of a privacy backlash (for now) – http://bit.ly/4Tu7qa

Marissa Mayer, vice president of Google’s Search Product and User Experience, revealed to The Telegraph exclusively at LeWeb 2009 in Paris, that Google Goggles will simply ignore people’s faces if people tried to apply the same technology to identify individuals rather than places or objects.
“Until we understand the implications of the facial recognition tool we have decided to make sure we block out people’s faces. We need to really understand how this tool affects people’s privacy and cannot change that decision until we do,” she explained.”

So, obviously it can do it now. Is it cataloging search results for fine-tuning until it’s released?

More words on this? http://bit.ly/88DFuu

Google spokesman Anthony House said: ‘We do have the relevant facial recognition technology at our disposal. For instance with our Picasa picture service a user can tag a friend in their photo album and it will search for and tag any other pictures of that person.

‘But we haven’t implemented this on Google Goggles because we want to consider the privacy implications and how this feature might be added responsibly.

‘So if someone uploads a picture of a stranger on Goggles there is no process to identify them and the search will come up with “no matches found.”

‘We will have talks with privacy advocates and consumers before we consider any changes – it may be people want such a service, but we don’t have a rigid timescale on when any decisions will be made.’

The controversy comes as Google CEO Eric Schmidt was lambasted by an Internet Privacy watchdog for some off hand remarks he made to the U.S news channel CNBC.

He was asked whether people should treat Google like a trusted friend. In his answer he said: ‘If you have something that you don’t want anyone to know, maybe you shouldn’t be doing it in the first place.’

So, decide. Do you like the idea of someone taking a picture of you and being able to see what the Internet has to offer on your face, identity, etc.

Start adding the small worries of this little graph.

“Around 70% of hiring managers in in US have rejected candidate just because of their online reputation. The chart looks at the various types of online information that have led companies to reject candidates.”

No thanks. I want the option to opt-out of this one.

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Jan 26 2010

DungeonPlace Podcast Episode 19: Defiling a Nun

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Listener suggestion!

  • From Twitter – careid69: “How to keep the intensity after the training is complete”

The Burn Report! A very brief report and account of making a theme camp at the Utah Burn. Once a Month update until the Big Weekend.

  • What we’re planning on building (furniture)
  • And some of the inside details of planning a Theme Camp for Kinksters

Kinky Word of the Day

Sapiosexuality: To become attracted to or sexually aroused by intelligence and its use.

SOTD: My Bottom Smarts: http://bottomsmarts.blogspot.com/

Panel: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Goddess, Sythen, Misha, LScribbens

Tags: podcast, roleplaying, role playing, kink, kinky, bdsm, bondage, nuns, burn, burning man, utah burn, element 11, sapiosexuality, spanking, theme camp,  mistakes, reputation, intensity, training, defile

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Jan 14 2010

DungeonPlace Podcast Episode 18: Abuse in Kink and BDSM Relationships

Tutivillus
dungeonplace fetishcast podcast

dungeonplace podcast

  • What is abuse in a kink/BDSM relationship?
  • Is there a difference between abuse in the ‘vanilla’ and kink community?
  • What do we do about abuse in the Kink/BDSM Community?

Utah 2009 report on Domestic Violence: http://media.bonnint.net/slc/1702/170296/17029623.pdf

National Leather Association Domestic Violence Project: http://www.nlaidvproject.us/
The vision of the NLA-I Domestic Violence Project is to create a national and international network to provide information, appropriate referrals, resources, and safe shelters for those in the world community who have been subjected to abusive and violent BDSM relationships and who are seeking a way out of those relationships or who require a more extensive support network than is otherwise available to them.

Site of the dayhttp://www.thenetworklared.org/smvsabuse.htm

This is the site we used to define abuse in Kink, S/M and BDSM relationships for this episodes of the podcast.

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If you have anything you’d like to add to this discussion.

Panel: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Scarlett, Goddess, Novice

Tags: podcast, abuse, bdsm, kinky, s/m, relationships, abusive relationships, bdsm abuse, kink abuse, support network, fetishcast, dungeonplace, domestic violence, vanilla, national leather association

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