I guess it was the words that first drew her attention. So she contacted me. We did the online “Safety Dance” for a couple of weeks. When the time came we both made the arrangements to meet.
This is the Word folks. Online Dating Etiquette…even for Kinks.
(Let people know where you are, who you’re with. Set up a “Safety Call”. ‘Nuff Said. It’s just the Sane thing to do.)
Our conversations, IM, Phone…Cam play…was hot. We talked limits, we agreed upon them. We had the proper “Safe Words” in place. There was no mistaking what would happen once we disposed of formalities. Unless our chemistry turned into a total train wreck, we would probably descend into some form of Animal Sex.
And so it was. Rain, dinner, the two-car drive back to my place. Lovely. I kissed her and she bit me. I took her by the throat – and applied pressure. There is a certain satisfaction when you look into the eyes of your sub – cutting off her air supply, hearing the wet noises of empty swallows, watching the eyes turn to fire as the juices truly begin to flow. Watching for that telltale moment when the fire recedes…when a dull sheen appears and fear begins creep in.
You will know much about a sub in that moment. You will learn all you will ever need to know about your D/s relationship and the level of Trust you will achieve. You will know by watching the fear…by watching what happens to it.
She. She took the fear and cast it aside. I watched it fade in a flicker, cut down by the calm smile of one emotion.
Trust.
I let her go, pull in new breath, and took her to the bedroom, bound her and allowed her the privilege of feeling my hands and a new set of virgin, hardwood paddles. Her ass reddened, but did not mark. I moved to a four-tail, applied to her breasts, thighs and ass. She gasped, cried and moaned.
She begged.
I held her, praised her for being such a good sub and continued to apply Domination. She yielded to me, but I was not out to break her – not this night. When I removed her collar, her chain, her bonds – we made love as equals.
Albeit, animal equals.
We scratched, we bit, we made a lot of noise…and frightened the cat.
She didn’t go home for 4 days…
-Tutivillus
