May
13
2009
Tutivillus
Serious topic here.
…oh, and a bit of a Rant coming.

photo credit: garybirnie.co.uk
Will someone please explain to me their justification behind training children in a D/s household?
Why would you do this and what the fuck are you thinking???!
What ego bloat deludes you into thinking you have the right to train children in the protocol behind BDSM? To me it simply stinks of emotional and mental abuse. And let us consider the Worst Case Scenario, shall we?
What happens if you’re married and get a divorce? I know from MUCH personal experience there is nothing that brings out the Ugly like parents fighting over their children.
“But that will NEVER happen to us, we’re to strong.” HA! Grow the fuck up and stop jerking off your delusion my friend.
…so, I’m not sure where I stand on this issue.
Someone mind enlightening me?
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Oct
14
2008
Tutivillus
Do you remember the post “Barely Legal“? Where DarlingEvil and I discuss my Ex-Wife and bringing her in to be our submissive for an evening?
This is the story of that evening.
Play with T was not a new thing – that was pure sexual fun. We had all managed to find a balance of respect and mutual enjoyment that allowed such a relationship to exist – not an easy path to create, but a very worthwhile endeavor.
Throwing a D/s element into this mix was a whole new level of complexity. T and I had this relationship during our marriage. We weren’t 24/7, but it was practiced as an element of our life. DE and I also had this element. Merging those layers and depths of meaning could cloud, confuse or simply bring a pain unwanted.
Understanding this, we moved ahead.
The scene was planned for a Wednesday night in a freeway motel.
-Tutivillus
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