Cuff ‘em
Sometimes it’s just fun to be told…to feel the hard steel biting your wrists.
Tags: bdsm, erotic photography, kinky, fetish, cuffs, handcuffs, women with cuffs, dominant women
Sometimes it’s just fun to be told…to feel the hard steel biting your wrists.
Tags: bdsm, erotic photography, kinky, fetish, cuffs, handcuffs, women with cuffs, dominant women
Saturday Night.
10pm – Gather everything, grab a couple of Sweet Teas and drive.
Something I should have done…tie the rope before hand…that would have saved more time for shooting.
10:25pm – Arrive at location: a pretty much abandoned parking garage. Cars scatter the various levels. There’s a van being loaded at the dock. I’ve been watching this location for some time…no one uses the roof level.
10:35pm – After blowing precious time on rope, we’re ready. DE and I walk to one of the elevator buildings. I call the elevators to our floor, cuff and tie her – the shoot begins.
10:45pm – We leave.
I really do need to do one of these soon.
Rather than simply snapping the picture, this is a play area I haven’t journeyed much into. I do believe the time has come to change that.
Especially when one considers the opportunities for merging Sadism and Photography here.
Oh yeah. This could be a screaming good time!
You could tag this winter with one word – “Hibernation”. A dear friend of mine (and fellow photographer) in Alaska and I have been talking and he agrees; it’s been a long winter.
In many ways I feel like we’ve been under siege!
I wouldn’t say it’s been a waste of time, at all. On the photography front alone we’ve collected a small arsenal this winter.
Research, search, buy…lenses, flashes, accessories.
Now I think it’s time to do some new shoots. I’m so very ready to break out of winter and go.
My new collar shipped today from collarfactory.com.

My first collar from collarfactory.com.

I am excited! The first one I ordered from them was last year and I have been very pleased with the quality. I like being able to choose my leather colour, hardware and add some personal flare. They also do cuffs and belts.
*de*
This is work. This is hard work.
I have a good friend. He has 2 girls. It is becoming routine for he and I to bounce questions, ideas, thoughts and general philosophies off of each other. In short, we’ve become a 2 man support team. He watches me, I watch him. We give each other advice and encouragement. What I’ve learned over the years (and what had held me back) was the simple fact that the D/s, D/g, BDSM relationships were not easy.
They are the most complex relationships I’ve entered into. I wouldn’t call them “difficult” (they’re only as difficult as we make them), but they are challenging. In turn they are endlessly rewarding. They aren’t a “Feast of Sex”. They aren’t a chorus of screams and torture.
I believe they are this (for all parties):
A constant journey of sacrifice, surrender, release, discovery and love.
I am pleased beyond any words I can place on these pages to be sharing this journey with my DE and my girl and all of you.
No. It’s not easy. But it sure as hell isn’t difficult.