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• What is abuse in a kink/BDSM relationship?
• Is there a difference between abuse in the ‘vanilla’ and kink community?
• What do we do about abuse in the Kink/BDSM Community?

Utah 2009 report on Domestic Violence: http://media.bonnint.net/slc/1702/170296/17029623.pdf

National Leather Association Domestic Violence Project: http://www.nlaidvproject.us/
The vision of the NLA-I Domestic Violence Project is to create a national and international network to provide information, appropriate referrals, resources, and safe shelters for those in the world community who have been subjected to abusive and violent BDSM relationships and who are seeking a way out of those relationships or who require a more extensive support network than is otherwise available to them.

Site of the day: http://www.thenetworklared.org/smvsabuse.htm

This is the site we used to define abuse in Kink, S/M and BDSM relationships for this episodes of the podcast.

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Email us: dungeonplace@gmail.com

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If you have anything you’d like to add to this discussion.

Panel: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Scarlett, Goddess, Novice

Tags: podcast, abuse, bdsm, kinky, s/m, relationships, abusive relationships, bdsm abuse, kink abuse, support network, fetishcast, dungeonplace, domestic violence, vanilla, national leather association

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A funny thing happened while recording this episode. The dog (yeah, a real dog who wanders about the house while we record these podcasts) knocked over the recorder. We caught it, but didn’t realize we’d hit the pause button. So this episode cuts off at around 49 minutes.

To help make up for this atrocity, I’ve included the pre-show.

The dog has now been banned from future recordings.

• Topic 1: Reader Question Hey, have been listening to the episode 1 re-release and it got me thinking. I’ve never been to a play party, in fact I only went to my first fetish event (the Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar) 3 months ago with my Master, and while I want to play publically and go to events like that, it terrifies me. However, the reason it scares me is because I’m worried that people will judge me because I don’t look like I belong in the scene. I’m a girly girl, I like to follow fashion, I wear a fair amount of pink and I’m generic in every other aspect of life apart from my kink. I am aware that that sounds pretty judgemental in itself because I’m sure loads of kinksters are exactly the same, but when we went to the BBB 90% of the people there were obviously kinky or gothic, etc. So basically my question is: should I be terrified? and Should I dress differently at fetish events?
• Topic 2: Insert Here! Your favorite Kink-related Insertable play!
• Topic 3: (For the Panel) What’s your Kinky New Year’s Resolution/Goal?

Tags: bdsm, podcast, fetishcast, fetish, kinky, kink, dungeonplace, fetish fashion, insertables, insertion play, new years eve, resolutions

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In Episode 15 of the Fetishcast (that’s our Podcast), we talked about Mezophilia. What the hell is that? Well! It’s the sexual arousal from breasts!

Now the question is this…is it real? (Besides just the regular Titty fascination.)

Nexus Newspapers wrote a great article entitled “Beauty and the breast” that nuzzles right into this topic.

“If there’s any elegance, design, and comfort in the universe—as all of our art, praise, and worship seem to unceasingly suggest—so much of it is found in these curiously haunting curves.

Are we a breast-obsessed culture? Breast fetishism, called mazophilia, involves a psychological and sexual interest amongst men and women for female breasts.”

I ask you this question…are we breast obsessed?

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Topic 1: From Princess_L (tweet): Long distance kink? She lives in the UK and he lives in Mexico.Suggestions?

Topic 2: How far is too far?

http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/10/13/scotus.sex.trafficking/index.html

http://www.villagevoice.com/2007-03-13/columns/whip-appealed/

http://business.avn.com/articles/5039.html

Topic 3: (Goddess) FROM A LISTENER: “I listen to the dungeon place podcast and think it’s great. I saw in your profile that you are independent and have to deal with that as sub. I wanted to know how you dealt with and if it helps you to be a better sub? I want to work on this cuz it’s one thing I’m dealing with and so is my partner.”

Kinky word of the day: shokushu goukan (Tentacle Rape)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tentacle_rape

http://www.sfbg.com/entry.php?entry_id=8206

http://www.amazines.com/Tentacle_rape_related.html

And the Soda! (Tentacle Grape!) http://www.tentaclegrape.com/

Shokushu Goukan

Site of the day: Found this when I researching weird fetishes http://www.cakefarts.com/

Panel: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Aaron, ObedientLover, Gamer Uk, ScarlettEden, Danny_Jo

Tags: podcast, bdsm, fetish, kink, kinky,tentacle rape, long distance, gorean, crime, supreme court, tentacle grape, sub, submissive, dom, dominant, shokushu goukan, cake farts, sadist, fetishcast

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©Tutivillus Sadist Podcast

Where Tutivillus discusses the finer points of laughter, tickling, how to avoid injury and his partner’s sensitivity to fingertips.

Enjoy!

Oh…and a special guest appearance by a buzzy friend!

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FetishCast

• Topic #1 How does one prepare (mentally) for a Rape Scene?
• Topic #2 Does BDSM act as a stress relief and do you have a favorite scene you act out to provide that stress release.
• Topic #3 (and sites of the day) Finding fetish wear if you don’t fit the usual mold.
  • Big girl fetishwear http://www.biggalslingerie.com/
  • Shoes!! http://www.sweetheels.com/plussize/plus-size-heels.html

Kinky word: Menophila: arousal from menstral blood.

Panelists: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Goddess, Gamer

Tags: podcast, fetish, fetishcast, bdsm, kink, kinky, rape, rape scene, stress, fetish wear, shoes, menophila

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©Tutivillus Sadist Podcast

What makes a Sadist happy?

A blank check. What does that mean? Why not listen and find out for yourself.

What makes a Sadist unhappy? You’ll find out in the first 10 seconds…

Tags: sadist, podcast, sadistic, bdsm, kinky, fetish, dungeon, fetishcast

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FetishCast

• Tutivillus discusses some upcoming changes to the Site and the Podcast.
• A call for submissions! Show us your Dungeons!
• Outtake from Episode 9 – Religion and BDSM

Tags: podcast, fetishcast, bdsm, kink, kinky, dungeon, dungeons, religion, cult

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We read Viewer Email!

Topic 1: Furries

What do furries do?

How much of a role does sex play in it?

How is this different than petplay/puppy/pony play?

Do furs really think they are animals trapped in human bodies?

Do many furs practice BDSM?

Why aren’t more furs openly active in the BDSM community?

Furry vocabulary: Baby furs? Yiffing? Furpiles? Plushies? Dens?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Furry_fandom

http://pressedfur.coolfreepages.com/press/vanityfair/

Topic 2:

BDSM: Playing with a Mental Illness – If you knew someone had a mental illness, would you play with them? Why or why not? What restrictions (if any) would you put on the Play?

Kinky word: Coprophilia “An abnormal, often obsessive interest in excrement, especially the use of feces for sexual excitement..SCAT.

Site of the Week: http://www.christinekessler.com

Participants: Darlingevil, Meow, Sythen, Carah, Gryphon, Goddess, Gamer, Jay, Ian, Tutivillus

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A funny thing happened during the recording of our upcoming Episode 9 of the DungeonPlace FetishCast.

I had to make a serious decision about a serious topic.

As we were discussing the topic it became very apparent the dimensions of what we were talking about were far more personal than the original “headline” suggested. It’s pretty normal for a discussion to go a bit off the rails…but in this case we laid down our own track and built a brand new station!

After sitting with the discussion for a few hours (and an email and a discussion or two) it became obvious there was a decision to be made.

DarlingEvil and I talked it over and decided to pull the entire topic and discussion from the Podcast.

Never thought I’d do that.

This was a civil discussion. We’re not talking scandal or revelations of destruction. What made this decision necessary was the fact that this Podcast has become much larger than we thought. It’s International.

As such we sometimes have to look at the impact of what we’re discussing. Is it relevant to the larger audience? And will it negatively impact the Community we live in?

In the end, those two questions held the larger answer.

So, if you hear us talk about 3 segments and only hear 2 discussed…you’ll know why.

But trust me…those two topics alone will give you PLENTY to think about.,