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Flogging in the great outdoors. I love it!

I’ve come to a realization.

Since the surgery flogging has become a somewhat difficult task! Looking at it, the answer is pretty simple – endurance and strength training to break 6 years of compensation for intense pain.

While I start this (and do the research) – does anyone have any suggestions for “flogging exercises”?

photo credit: Sarah G…

The very first play party I attended was in a community house. Each room had been converted into an encapsulated playspace.

Terror play, needle play, flogging, rigging, fisting, sounds, electical play, knife play…. From Thud to Snap to Edge it was there and I was in overdrive.

The scene that I remember most was done on a bed suspended from the ceiling. The sub had at least a hundred needles running through his body. Each needle was carefully tied with delicate line which was fastened to various points above the bed. The needle portion alone was hypnotic, but I laughed aloud when the sadistic fun really started.

The Domme gently began swinging the bed back and forth, each line pulled on each needle.

The sub groaned – deep, low, long. Skin pulled along his frame as the bed tensioned various bits.

Scenes like those make impressions. They define. They make us either run or grin.

This one made me think, drove me to learn and propelled me forward.

Flogging a Moving Target is fun.

This Scene was created by the collaboration of Mindnbody and NickM with their mad rigging skills. Their victim? Of course it was the beautiful DarlingEvil.

My involvement was a complete surprise, since the Scene began while I was doing my turn as a DM and was relieved before the Scene ended.

Flogging a bound woman

MindnBody was busy working DE as well. Floggers, canes, quirts…for DE it was a scene that pushed her as she’s not one who’s keen on high pain.

I’m thinking it was the rope. She IS keen on rope. Rope is a smile and a tonic in her kink DNA.

Such a fun Scene…I think we need to do it again soon. Perhaps as a wedding gift.

HNT – Half-Naked Thursday

Snow on/Snow off. The fickle Spring in full force.

Reeling through the memories of last year via photograph I have officially acknowledged the want of Summer. Now.

Scene from a Burn

A cool drink. The smells of the outdoors alive. Flogging under the sun and moon and open sky.

Yes. I’m sorry, but the goddamn snow needs to go!

This is work. This is hard work.

I have a good friend. He has 2 girls. It is becoming routine for he and I to bounce questions, ideas, thoughts and general philosophies off of each other. In short, we’ve become a 2 man support team. He watches me, I watch him. We give each other advice and encouragement. What I’ve learned over the years (and what had held me back) was the simple fact that the D/s, D/g, BDSM relationships were not easy.

They are the most complex relationships I’ve entered into. I wouldn’t call them “difficult” (they’re only as difficult as we make them), but they are challenging. In turn they are endlessly rewarding. They aren’t a “Feast of Sex”. They aren’t a chorus of screams and torture.

I believe they are this (for all parties):

A constant journey of sacrifice, surrender, release, discovery and love.

I am pleased beyond any words I can place on these pages to be sharing this journey with my DE and my girl and all of you.

No. It’s not easy. But it sure as hell isn’t difficult.

“I want to put a paper mache head on someone who’s been suspended and turn them into into a Pinata!” I said as the ropework began.

Nick_M turned from a knot and piped in “We could stick candy in their ass!”

It was an impromptu scene. DarlingEvil and I had talked about the whole Pinata idea earlier that evening. Now it was partially coming to fruition.

No, we didn’t get a chance to stick candy up her ass and hit her with the foam bats.

DarlingEvil in rope

Nick_M and MindnBody did the hard work. Watching the banter between DE and those two was hillarious. Once DE was up te floggers and torture began. At one point Nick_M took the  DM duty from me and let me play with my suspended darling.

Photo by DeviantTe

It was glorious!

I know DE will be writing about this soon, but damn, it was a fun scene to be a part of.

-Tutivillus

Flogging is an art.

Yes, anyone can use a flogger, but only a few people can use a flogger like an artist uses a brush. Your sub is a canvas and your colors are the many shades of pain.

I think I just happened to catch a masterwork on film.

DarlingEvil flogging a sub

Flogging — it’s an essential, solid skill that anyone interested in BDSM play should know. It’s typical of kinky play…flogging is easy to learn, hard to master. The techiniques involved in a good flogging scene are almost limitless.

To that point, we’ve got a quick round-up of flogging links for you!

• Get a flogger! (Cheap isn’t really an option here. A cheap flogger will never arouse anyone…but unless you know it’s for you, don’t dive wallet deep either!)

• • Buy a flogger here (DungeonPlace.com market)
  • Or buy a flogger here (JT’s Stockroom)
• Study up! There are many guides on the Net to help you, but please read them before you start! Safety is an important issue since flogging can cause injury.
  • Flogging for Fun!
  • Begginer’s guide to flogging
  • Safety: Flogging
  • Flogging
  • Screw the Roses, Send me The Thorns!
  • What to do if my sub faints! (Jay Wiseman)
• Do!

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Have fun!

-Tutivillus

I love extreme play.

This isn’t something I do at many play parties. Occasionally I’ll pull out the stops and do something a bit more “stepped” if I feel the urge – or if it’s requested by someone I feel can handle it.

Sexual torture scenes, Edge Play, breaking a sub to the point of tears can really upset people…even those who have seen and been around the variety of sights.

Last Saturday I was asked to break a fellow Dom/Daddy’s girl. She loved the pain of “sharp, stingy” toys – canes, paddles, hard leather, nails, hair pulling. But adding the pain of continuous assault, sharp commands, holding her up by her hair as she tried to evade the blows…

…that was fun.

It’s something to be careful with. You must be in tune with your sub. Be sure they’re breathing. Be sure they’re not going into hysterics and that you’re not causing psychological damage. The point is to help them Release, not Harm them.

In my private scenes? Hehehe…believe me when I tell you — It gets MUCH more extreme.

-Tutivillus