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In Episode 15 of the Fetishcast (that’s our Podcast), we talked about Mezophilia. What the hell is that? Well! It’s the sexual arousal from breasts!

Now the question is this…is it real? (Besides just the regular Titty fascination.)

Nexus Newspapers wrote a great article entitled “Beauty and the breast” that nuzzles right into this topic.

“If there’s any elegance, design, and comfort in the universe—as all of our art, praise, and worship seem to unceasingly suggest—so much of it is found in these curiously haunting curves.

Are we a breast-obsessed culture? Breast fetishism, called mazophilia, involves a psychological and sexual interest amongst men and women for female breasts.”

I ask you this question…are we breast obsessed?

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“Every form of addiction is bad, no matter whether the narcotic be alcohol or morphine or idealism.”
~Carl Jung

There was a recent comment made on one my posts titled “TANSTAFL”.  I was discussing the vagaries of sub-drop with some suggestions to combat the condition.  Someone suggested that what I was describing sounded like addiction. They then proceeded to voice their opinion that BDSM was not a sexual preference, but a harmful addiction comparable to drug addiction.  Now as a recovering alcoholic with over 22 years of continuous sobriety, I know a little bit about addiction and thus have a very strong opinion on this topic.

Addiction is a very personal thing and as individual as the person themselves. As AA has demonstrated over their long history there are true commonalities between addicts that define an addict as such. However, addiction is very much determined by the individuals inner subjective experience. Addiction can be defined as: “continued (compulsive) use despite adverse consequences.” What seperates a person who is alcoholic from those who are not?  It is the ability to imbibe without those compulsive adverse consequences. It is not how, when or how much they drink but the loss of control when they do. It would be ludicrous to label everyone who drinks as being alcoholic. Only the individual can determine what determines adverse consequences, the lack of control and thus whether or not they are addicted.  The object of the addiction in not the culprit in the addiction.  It is not the shopping malls fault that the shopaholic maxes out their credit cards.  The breweries and the wineries are not culpable in my inablity to drink responsibly. The blame for addiction lies within the heart and soul of the addict, not in the object of the addict’s obsession.

Healthy sex will arise out of a healthy mind. A person who is relatively free from compulsion, who identifies with the needs and wants of others will subsequently have a healthy sex life. A healthy sex life does not necessarily equate to straight hetero vanilla sex.  A healthy sex life will be as unique as each individual.  BDSM is a sexual preference as well as a sexual expression. When BDSM is practiced between two consenting, consensual adults it cannot only be healthy but one of the most intimate sexual experiences possible. I find for myself that the power exchange whether coupled with pain or not heightens the intimacy as well as the sexual experience.  The BDSM community has often been applauded among sex therapists not only for the sexually intelligent practices within this community but also for the tremendous communication skills and the use of BDSM “scenes” for psychological healing. These practices cannot help but promote healthy sex, as wel as  healthy relationships .

In recent years, there has been greater education amoung sex therapists. Most realize that BDSM and fetish practices are a normal expressions of sexuality.  The DSM-IV (Diagnositic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) no longer lists BDSM as a disorder or illness.  In 1995, Denmark completely removed sadomasochism from its national classification of diseases.  The vast majority of researchers assume that 5 to 25 percent of the population enjoys some form of pain, dominance or submission. They believe that the percentage who indulge in fantasies of BDSM to be even higher.

It is very clear to me not only from a personal level but also on an intellectual level that BDSM is not an addiction but a sexual preference.  To equate BDSM to addiction or to label it “evil” is about as enlightened as those who classify homosexuality as “evil” and addicting.   It my humble opinion that the moral upright, the sexually rigid  and religious fanatical focus on their own bedrooms and stay the hell out of mine.

I had my first session with my ponyboy… it went so well I even attached a video for your enjoyment. (Yes I am trying to be funny…)

This video represents how intense it made me feel.

Who says that having sex with your pony boy equates to bestiality? If you ask me… they are full of it.  However, should I be concerned that he is hung like a horse?

I had to discipline him this evening. It was quite empowering to be in my 6″ heels, wielding my crop, and holding the reigns attached to his head piece harness.  I think I did a good job… either that or I should look into some salt peter.

I need a name for my pony… any suggestions?

I finished the evening by fitting a CB3000 and attaching my padlock. Got to train him to be a good pony. Enjoy the video, it is pretty funny, and plus hearing Joan Collins say fuck is priceless.

More to come, we must get crackin… we have a fetish event coming up… and I would love to bring my pony with me!

Meow!

I had my first session with my ponyboy… it went so well I even attached a video for your enjoyment. … yes I am trying to be funny… this video represents how intense it was.  But who says that having sex with your pony boy equates to beastiality? If you ask me… they are full of it.  However, should I be concerned that he is hung like a horse?I had to discipline him this evening. It was quite empowering to be in my 6″ heels, weilding my crop, and holding the reigns in his harness. It really turned me on… I think I did a good job… either that or I should look into some salt peter.

Noddy was still in subspace, but was more than happy to give support to Sis and myself.

I laid on my stomach and offered up my canvas. Tutivillus paused and stroked my naked flesh. He whispered in my ear to hold very still.

I groaned..feeling the arousing sting. It was better than I remembered.

Plushophilia: a person who has an attraction towards stuffed animals. This attraction can be sexual, making it a paraphilia or non-sexual depending on the person and the plushie involved. I would be willing to bet some of those Beanie Baby collectors fall into this category.

Some plushophiles are also furries.

Furries: A furry is any real or fictional character who has both animal and human attributes. This can range from ordinary animals that have attained sentience, to humans with some animal-like characteristic. They are most commonly, but not always, represented as anthropomorphic characters. A furry can also refer to someone who is spiritually, emotionally or otherwise interested in animals, furry characters, fursuits, plushies, etc.

Then we have the sport’s mascots, such as South Carolina’s Cocky…..

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We were watching porn the other night.
The final scenario of this particular collection was two nuns.

Fisting nuns.
Fisting nuns using a priest’s cum as the lube.
The priest must have been bored because he left soon after cumming all over the ass of one of the nuns.
Maybe he had a sermon to complete before Sunday…..

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BASTINADO: Any form of pain play involving inflicting pain on the soles of the feet, often by striking, cropping, or whipping them.

Closest I have come to this is a bad pedicure.

PAIN SLUT: a masochist who enjoys forms of pain play involving large amounts of pain.

Not to be confused with a regular slut, pain play may or may not involve any sexual contact at all. The pain slut derives pleasure from submitting to and receiving what painful, creative and sadistic torture the sadist has in mind. In most cases,’safe, sane and consensual’ credo is adhered to.

Pain is relative. Some can take more than others. Of course, just the idea of having your ass paddled, whipped and flogged until it is bruised and welted is neither safe nor sane for some. I am not going to get into the whole process, but just know that a good sadist will not jump in there and start wailing. (unless of course, you were bad and deserved it..lol) There is usually I warm-up period. After that..fair game.

I consent to certain things..but a pain slut..I am definitely not.

Abasiophilia : psychosexual attraction to people with impaired mobility, especially those who use orthopedic appliances such as leg braces, wheelchairs, casts, spinal braces etc.

OK–I don’t get all squishy from those who cannot walk etc. In fact-it only brings back bad memories of having to take care of such peeps. Besides…a sweaty, stinky leg that has been in a brace..*shudder*.

More power to ya if this is your thing.

Jock sniffing: the inhalation of odors from unlaundered jockstraps for the purpose of sexual stimulation.