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Listener Suggestion:

• When Master and slave have been together for some time and the slave has been trained, how do you keep it going? @CareID69

Topic 2:

• Stepping Up and Stepping Out: Taking charge of your Kink – It’s time to play in public without fear or apprehension!

Stay tuned next week for part 2!

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Panel: Tutivillus, Misha, HeyNurse, Goddess, Sythen, SyrBigDog, Aine32, Lscribbens

Tags: podcast, kink, kinky, fetish, bdsm, master, slave, training, play, confidence, fear, apprehension, rocky mountain olympus

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©Tutivillus Sadist Podcast

The podcast episode where Tutivillus discusses sadism, pain, pain sluts, PETA and Tofu Frogs.

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Tags: sadist, sadism, podcast, bdsm, fetish, kinky, kink, pain, pain sluts, peta, tofu frog

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Gamer's Tools

It has been a little over a year that I began my journey into the realm of BDSM. I have been noticing lately some interesting conversations on various message boards that have me reflecting upon my past and current experiences. One question in particular struck a chord for me: “Am I really a pain slut?” I can certainly empathize with the confusion that was expressed in that particular post. I remember clearly when I was first confronted with what was to my mind an unacceptable part of my nature. Tutivillus had just administered my first real beating which I admitted at the time I enjoyed immensely. It confused me greatly how good it felt to be hurt. When we first negotiated the scene, I was intrigued by the bondage and only mildly curious about the pain. It took me by surprise how turned on I was to his hand and paddle striking my bared bottom. With each ‘whack’ I became more in tune to not only Tutivillus but to my own body, my own mind and my own heart. It took me several days to come to peace with the possibility that I was a lover of pain. I was as yet unconvinced that it was indeed a reality.

During these past twelve months, I continued exploring the darker side of myself. I have always known I adored bondage and rope, but learning about pain took a great deal of courage as well as a level of self-acceptance. Not one to shrink from self-discovery I began experimenting with different types of pain and sensation play. I discovered that I enjoyed the ‘whack’ of a paddle very much, but the sting of a single tail, left me a whimpering coward. I learned that I adore the bite of clothes pins and nipple clamps and even more so to have them ripped off me. As I began to reconcile the societal conditioning that “pain = bad”, I gave my self permission to enjoy all of the sensations that my Dom offered me. As I embraced, the pain I discovered the new heights that I could be taken to sexually. I look forward to the feel of my Dom’s hand whether he gives me pleasure or pain. I crave the touch of his paddle, the feel of his clamps on my breasts, his teeth biting, the ropes burning my wrists. The pain contrasts and heightens the pleasure he gives. The administering of pain has forged a bond of trust with my Dom, that I didn’t realize could exist between two people. Now a year later, I am no longer conflicted but fully accept who and what I am. I am a pain slut and I revel in the knowledge.

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Topic 1: Is Collaring really necessary?

• If you’ve got a sea full-o-fish, why bother? (This is a devil’s argument)

Topic 2: How (NOT) to approach someone in an Open Relationship for sex – even if they’re Male! (The Drunk Dialed Booty Call)

Topic 3: Sex Dolls and artificial intelligence

• How does that differ from Master/slave relationships?
• http://www.slate.com/id/2243580/
• http://www.veronicabelmont.com/2010/02/more-on-roxxxy-the-sexbot/
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Mori_Uncanny_Valley.svg
• http://www.realdoll.com/

Kinky Word of The Day: Lygerastia - Lygerastia refers to the inability to become sexually aroused unless it is dark.

Site of The Day: http://www.letsmasturbate.com/

Panelists: Tutuivillus, DarlingEvil, Goddess, Gamer, Aine, SyrBigDog, Misha, Sythen, LScribbens

Tags: podcast, kink, fetish, kinky, collars, collaring, open relationships, drunk dial, booty call, real doll, bondage, dungeon, dungeonplace, sex dolls, ai, artificial intelligence, lygerastia, masturbate, masturbation

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Listener suggestion!

• From Twitter – careid69: “How to keep the intensity after the training is complete”

• Anatomy of a roleplaying scene? – there’s probably more people like myself who are interested in roleplaying but just don’t know how to go about actually doing one (and how to alleviate the self-consciousness of it perhaps).
  • “Remember that role playing is not simply about being someone else for an evening; it helps both of you divulge preferences that you may otherwise not reveal. Although you’re behaving like someone else, these kinds of games give away your true interests”
  • http://www.lovingyou.com/content/passion/passionplay-content.php?ART=roleplaying
  • http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1354350/sexy_role_playing_costumes.html
  • http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip/46b_love_tip.html
  • http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roleplaying
  • http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_roleplay
  • Plus a DEMO!
• Dealing with Mistakes in a Scene

The Burn Report! A very brief report and account of making a theme camp at the Utah Burn. Once a Month update until the Big Weekend.

• What we’re planning on building (furniture)
• And some of the inside details of planning a Theme Camp for Kinksters

Kinky Word of the Day

Sapiosexuality: To become attracted to or sexually aroused by intelligence and its use.

SOTD: My Bottom Smarts: http://bottomsmarts.blogspot.com/

Panel: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Goddess, Sythen, Misha, LScribbens

Tags: podcast, roleplaying, role playing, kink, kinky, bdsm, bondage, nuns, burn, burning man, utah burn, element 11, sapiosexuality, spanking, theme camp,  mistakes, reputation, intensity, training, defile

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• What is abuse in a kink/BDSM relationship?
• Is there a difference between abuse in the ‘vanilla’ and kink community?
• What do we do about abuse in the Kink/BDSM Community?

Utah 2009 report on Domestic Violence: http://media.bonnint.net/slc/1702/170296/17029623.pdf

National Leather Association Domestic Violence Project: http://www.nlaidvproject.us/
The vision of the NLA-I Domestic Violence Project is to create a national and international network to provide information, appropriate referrals, resources, and safe shelters for those in the world community who have been subjected to abusive and violent BDSM relationships and who are seeking a way out of those relationships or who require a more extensive support network than is otherwise available to them.

Site of the day: http://www.thenetworklared.org/smvsabuse.htm

This is the site we used to define abuse in Kink, S/M and BDSM relationships for this episodes of the podcast.

Please call us: 1+(951).465.5465

Email us: dungeonplace@gmail.com

Or Twitter @bdsm_group

If you have anything you’d like to add to this discussion.

Panel: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Scarlett, Goddess, Novice

Tags: podcast, abuse, bdsm, kinky, s/m, relationships, abusive relationships, bdsm abuse, kink abuse, support network, fetishcast, dungeonplace, domestic violence, vanilla, national leather association

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I enjoy listening to as many other Kinky podcasts as possible. One of my favorites is the Masocast. Very enlightening!

His episode “Reaction Junkie” had a particular impact.  This is the excerpt:

A conversation with Sascha about different kinds of non-monogamy, advice for men who email her, merging her halves and more.

Pretty much every one of those talking points…spoke to me. I always struggle to define (or NOT define) my non-monogamy, I am baffled by some of the communication from the people who contact me (both men and women) and walking with an animal inside is always a good time.

Listen to it. There is MUCH insight. Get familiar with the host. You can find him on Twitter: @unspeakableaxe. We’re also trading interviews before too long!

Let me know what you think.

Tags: masocast, non monogamy, bdsm, unspeakableaxe, kink, kinky, sex, sexuality, podcasts, masochist

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A funny thing happened while recording this episode. The dog (yeah, a real dog who wanders about the house while we record these podcasts) knocked over the recorder. We caught it, but didn’t realize we’d hit the pause button. So this episode cuts off at around 49 minutes.

To help make up for this atrocity, I’ve included the pre-show.

The dog has now been banned from future recordings.

• Topic 1: Reader Question Hey, have been listening to the episode 1 re-release and it got me thinking. I’ve never been to a play party, in fact I only went to my first fetish event (the Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar) 3 months ago with my Master, and while I want to play publically and go to events like that, it terrifies me. However, the reason it scares me is because I’m worried that people will judge me because I don’t look like I belong in the scene. I’m a girly girl, I like to follow fashion, I wear a fair amount of pink and I’m generic in every other aspect of life apart from my kink. I am aware that that sounds pretty judgemental in itself because I’m sure loads of kinksters are exactly the same, but when we went to the BBB 90% of the people there were obviously kinky or gothic, etc. So basically my question is: should I be terrified? and Should I dress differently at fetish events?
• Topic 2: Insert Here! Your favorite Kink-related Insertable play!
• Topic 3: (For the Panel) What’s your Kinky New Year’s Resolution/Goal?

Tags: bdsm, podcast, fetishcast, fetish, kinky, kink, dungeonplace, fetish fashion, insertables, insertion play, new years eve, resolutions

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FetishCast

• Topic 1 (RANT ON!!) :Is Mental Illness an excuse for Bad Behavior in the Kink Community?
• Topic 2: Sensory deprivation play. heightened senses when some senses are blocked/countered? Curious about expanding this play. Limited experience but the experiments I’ve tried have been ‘interesting’. Opinions sought – will post info as I find more.
• Topic 3: What do you want Santa Claws to put in your BDSM Christmas stocking this year?

Site of the Day: http://www.canvasalive.com/japanpages/japan1.htm
KWOTD: amychophilia: being scratched

Panelists: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Goddess, GamerUK, Sythen

Tags: podcast, bdsm, fetish, kink, kinky, dungeonplace, mental illness, sensory deprivation, toys, amychophilia, scratching, body paint

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