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Old, old story. And for me, an old comedy.

Man (or woman) Wants. They do not Get in their current relationship. Rather than being honest about it, they take off into that shadow place we know as “Lie”.

I’ve been a victim of this. It was a serious, serious hot spot for me for a long time. Now, it’s just something I get a laugh out of.  I was a serious cheat in my Teen years. Once I got engaged, I took the commitment very seriously. Even in an Open Relationship I take it seriously. DE knows everyone I talk to, approach and have any kind of relationship.

Unfortunately, not many are brave enough to take the path of honesty here. Or they use the term “Open Relationship” as an excuse to behave badly. Lately I’ve spoken with several subs in the area who are being approached by a Dom I know is married and who’s spouse, family, etc. have no idea what he’s up to.

I could “Out” him, but it’s not my place to judge. It is up to the Negotiation Process to ferret out the situation. Besides, it’s really none of my damn business! Would I do it? Hell no! Would I get involved with someone in this situation? I tend to say “NO!”…simply because I don’t want the personal drama.

However (yes…here comes the caveat) if it came down to a strict Use/use relationship? Who knows. It would be something I would definitely let DE know about and weigh her advice.

No, I don’t like seeing my friends, subs, etc. getting hurt or into situations with Liars and Cheats. But hey! It’s their life…

Comments?

-Tutivillus

Do you remember the post “Barely Legal“? Where DarlingEvil and I discuss my Ex-Wife and bringing her in to be our submissive for an evening?

This is the story of that evening.

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Play with T was not a new thing – that was pure sexual fun. We had all managed to find a balance of respect and mutual enjoyment that allowed such a relationship to exist – not an easy path to create, but a very worthwhile endeavor.

Throwing a D/s element into this mix was a whole new level of complexity. T and I had this relationship during our marriage. We weren’t 24/7, but it was practiced as an element of our life. DE and I also had this element. Merging those layers and depths of meaning could cloud, confuse or simply bring a pain unwanted.

Understanding this, we moved ahead.

The scene was planned for a Wednesday night in a freeway motel.

-Tutivillus