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Here’s a question for the Dominants, Masters, Daddys and Owners (etc.) out there.

“How important is Protocol in your D/s relationships?”

Do you have an established protocol? Is it something you teach your playmates, partners, properties? Or do you just wing it?

My personal opinion is this…as a whole, we’ve let Protocol slide. Do you agree or disagree?

I’d like your opinions.

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Topic 1: Sex in Scenes at the “public” parties. Where the hell is it??
Topic 2: Is BDSM an addiction?

• http://www.sextreatment.com/bdsm.htm
• http://www.ipgcounseling.com/other_services.html
• http://vekquin.com/articles/bdsm-new-church.html
• http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m0846/is_6_24/ai_n9481984/
• http://www.lehigh.edu/~dmd1/sarah.html
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM
• http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/03/080303101110.htm

Topic 3: Bloodplay/Bloodsports. Resurgence of the vampire and interest in blood play in scenes. Safety, types,
precautions. Cutting for “self harm” vs cutting in BSDM play. Difference?
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Panelists: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Goddess, Gamer, Meow, Jay, Carah, Daen

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Protocol: Breaking it down with Jodi.

Topic 1: Body image issues… overcoming fear and stereotypes.

Topic 2: Fisting & Vaginoplasty / Neovaginoplasty (MTF Trans) / Labiaplasty (reducing the size of Labia)

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I’d like to talk about our experiences with fisting, the mess, joy, love and hate of it.
Also, perhaps our intial fears of it. How we researched the techniques and some tips for those interested in beginning.

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Topic 3:Accountability when a M/s D/s relationship ends?
How responsible are you for offering a sense of closure? How much closure is enough?

Topic 4: Switching… How hard is it really? Can I learn to be both at the same time?

Topic 5: Sterilization methods

When you don’t own an autoclave. How do you keep your stainless steel implements sanitary?

Cold sterilization. Or you can ask a piercing shop if you can pay to have them autoclave

your implement (s) for you. What other options are out there?
Here are some Sterilization techniques

• http://www.chaseunion.com/documents/safety/sterile1.htm

• http://ask.bmezine.com/2008/10/26/sterilization/

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Kinky word of the day:
OBJECTIFICATION: an act in which one person is dehumanized or dehumanizes another.

• What would you want to be?… What would you make someone be?

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Kick the bricks and scream against the wind.

Protocol has taken me some time to gentle my way through. It’s been a journey. At the turning point I decided to research the reasons behind the protocol in this particular way of life.

Q: Why do some organizations make it feel like you’re in the military?

A: Simple – Respect and discipline. You’re in their “house”, you follow their rules and accept them. Besides, it allows a room full of people some silence and a single voice to be heard.

I’ve had friends express some serious dislike of this aspect of protocol. That’s okay. I didn’t either. Over time I stopped listening to the words and began looking at the mechanism behind them – then it made complete sense.

I suggest you discover what protocol exists at your various haunts and learn the “why” behind them. You may well be amazed at the tradition you’ll discover folks!

-Tutivillus

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