I asked this question on FriendFeed yesterday and got a fairly typical response. It was simply a response from a fairly “vanilla” audience. So I ask a more “Kink-centric” audience the question.
When do you consider a relationship “Open”?
Is it the act of letting go of your partner while they play in a Scene with another?
Is it you or your partner participating in the various acts of sex in all it’s various and wonderful forms with another?
I’m not talking about Polyamory. I’m addressing the concept of Open relationships. Engaging in Play (provide your own definition of that word) without the additional attachment you find in Poly situations.
I had my first session with my ponyboy… it went so well I even attached a video for your enjoyment. (Yes I am trying to be funny…)
This video represents how intense it made me feel.
Who says that having sex with your pony boy equates to bestiality? If you ask me… they are full of it. However, should I be concerned that he is hung like a horse?
I had to discipline him this evening. It was quite empowering to be in my 6″ heels, wielding my crop, and holding the reigns attached to his head piece harness. I think I did a good job… either that or I should look into some salt peter.
I need a name for my pony… any suggestions?
I finished the evening by fitting a CB3000 and attaching my padlock. Got to train him to be a good pony. Enjoy the video, it is pretty funny, and plus hearing Joan Collins say fuck is priceless.
More to come, we must get crackin… we have a fetish event coming up… and I would love to bring my pony with me!
Meow!
I had my first session with my ponyboy… it went so well I even attached a video for your enjoyment. … yes I am trying to be funny… this video represents how intense it was. But who says that having sex with your pony boy equates to beastiality? If you ask me… they are full of it. However, should I be concerned that he is hung like a horse?I had to discipline him this evening. It was quite empowering to be in my 6″ heels, weilding my crop, and holding the reigns in his harness. It really turned me on… I think I did a good job… either that or I should look into some salt peter.
Flogging ass, sticking needles in strange and beautiful people. Making sure strangers actually do have red blood. What are some of the strangest sexual fetishes tolerable by the folks DE and I run into?
Adding new sounds to the DungeonPlace Scream Index…
…there are more.
But there’s also a downside.
Tonight DE and I were watching an episode of Taboo; it was dedicated to “Initiation Rituals”. During the watch I got that same feeling I’ve gotten while watching a lot of these shows.
“Hmmm…I’ve seen this before – Hell, I’ve Done it!”
Hook Pull
I realize at first read that statement sounds incredibly cocky. Believe – I don’t intend to have an my ego speak for me. When you hit a certain point in this life you realize the sites you’re seeing are largely re-runs and cravings begin for episodes unseen.
Oh I’ve begun digging into mighty arcane places for my inspiration.
It’s a downside, to be sure.
But, if you’re worth a damn, it simply fuels your drive to look harder and deeper for the Scenes you’ll want to do.
I need you like a thing addicted. Slip the needle of you into my veins and claim a release so torture-sweet? The fall would break my knees. This is a want so deep and dark even lust would look pale, feeble. Weak.
You. I want. I need. Now.
Begging in a cold sweat for those razor, red nails to release my blood. Crying when you close over me – warm, soft-wet motion to release something so molten and base. I would melt if it weren’t so urgent…if I didn’t need your flesh so badly.
Torture me for eternity. Do it. I’ll write poems and stories and songs. Dedicate them to your beauty. A thousand slaves I would give to do your bidding if meant you were mine until time goes black.
Do you remember the post “Barely Legal“? Where DarlingEvil and I discuss my Ex-Wife and bringing her in to be our submissive for an evening?
This is the story of that evening.
Play with T was not a new thing – that was pure sexual fun. We had all managed to find a balance of respect and mutual enjoyment that allowed such a relationship to exist – not an easy path to create, but a very worthwhile endeavor.
Throwing a D/s element into this mix was a whole new level of complexity. T and I had this relationship during our marriage. We weren’t 24/7, but it was practiced as an element of our life. DE and I also had this element. Merging those layers and depths of meaning could cloud, confuse or simply bring a pain unwanted.
Understanding this, we moved ahead.
The scene was planned for a Wednesday night in a freeway motel.
It was a great party. Some drink, a lot of good friends, some new friends and a deep, sexual vibe. The overall theme was a social Swingers gathering and never involved a lot play. Didn’t really matter, anyone watching got an eyeful of whatever they wanted just by wandering.
DarlingEvil and I are known for out kink – we don’t hide it…much. Some run screaming, most ask questions, others seek us out…wanting. A group of us began discussing some finer points of kink. A small crowd gathered, a bench appeared.
Next thing? DE was on the bench and I was spanking her in front of a “Vanilla” crowd.
The reactions were interesting…but damn! It was fun, fun times.
DarlingEvil found a submissive for me to dominate (physically and sexually). For those of you not following here’s the situation.
DE has a fantasy of watching me Dominate a submissive. She’s always been in this from the role of submissive, but she wants to observe. I fully admit there are certain activities I enjoy that Trix does not and there are times where I have a hard time crossing the line into full Dom mode with her, because she is my partner, lover, best friend, etc.
Yesterday, she approached someone about it. An experienced sub who is also somewhat of a pain-slut. I IM’d her last night and began the negotiations.
We agreed on a mutual trust level.
We discussed time and place.
We began running over some of what was to be done in the scene: Humiliation, bondage (light to heavy), spanking, flogging, waxing, breath-play, clamps, sensory deprivation and other activities of my choice.
I pretty much have a blank check on this one. DE sat next to me and made the suggestion that she would like to see needle play performed on both our sub and her. I agreed that would be a great idea. I’ve not done much needle play, and I know this will be particularly effective with our sub.
Other plans and ideas began to formulate in my head, of which I am putting into action now…need to do some shopping.
So, why barely legal? Well, this sub crosses the taboo line for most people I know, and to be honest, I was a little surprised when DE approached her, and a little surprised when our sub agreed.
