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Topic 1: From Princess_L (tweet): Long distance kink? She lives in the UK and he lives in Mexico.Suggestions?

Topic 2: How far is too far?

http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/10/13/scotus.sex.trafficking/index.html

http://www.villagevoice.com/2007-03-13/columns/whip-appealed/

http://business.avn.com/articles/5039.html

Topic 3: (Goddess) FROM A LISTENER: “I listen to the dungeon place podcast and think it’s great. I saw in your profile that you are independent and have to deal with that as sub. I wanted to know how you dealt with and if it helps you to be a better sub? I want to work on this cuz it’s one thing I’m dealing with and so is my partner.”

Kinky word of the day: shokushu goukan (Tentacle Rape)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tentacle_rape

http://www.sfbg.com/entry.php?entry_id=8206

http://www.amazines.com/Tentacle_rape_related.html

And the Soda! (Tentacle Grape!) http://www.tentaclegrape.com/

Shokushu Goukan

Site of the day: Found this when I researching weird fetishes http://www.cakefarts.com/

Panel: Tutivillus, DarlingEvil, Aaron, ObedientLover, Gamer Uk, ScarlettEden, Danny_Jo

Tags: podcast, bdsm, fetish, kink, kinky,tentacle rape, long distance, gorean, crime, supreme court, tentacle grape, sub, submissive, dom, dominant, shokushu goukan, cake farts, sadist, fetishcast

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(Yes…I’m on a gas mask kick)

Terror Play.

If ever you plan on opening this door, remember that it starts during your initial negotiations with the sub/slave/etc.

Here’s an example of what I’m talking about.

I am a careful negotiator and I take my time. I use notebooks to document the conversation.

Likes, dislikes, limits (soft and hard), reactions…and that’s where the key to Terror Play lies.

You can learn more about a submissive by their reactions to a subject than you can by their words. If their skin flushes, their pupils react, their fingers twitch? If their bodies react involuntarily? You know you have something.

I write that down and mark it. After a few minutes I re-visit, gently probe that subject. I put a “T” next to it if there’s a possibility of Terror Play.

Later, if TP never pops on the Hard Limit list and isn’t a non-negotiated Soft Limit?

WHAM…that list comes out to play.

Just a little something for your Tuesday reading.

Thoughts? Sound off.

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After watching a scene, a friend of mine was putting her “toys” back into her box.  There they were… a pair of Leg Irons. My feet shot out, my mouth salivated, my pulse raced. They were a birthday present from her husband. She grinned ear to ear and was all to happy to accommodate my wish. She then realized her matching wrist irons were in the car! 5 minutes later I was “in irons”, and in my mind, my own personal slice of submissive heaven. As I moved around the party, socialized and smoked, I could not help but grin ear to ear. Feeling the cold chains on my skin refreshing. Being teased, touched, and paddled a few times playfully. Is this what it feels like to “play” at a party? Why in the hell has it taken me so long? This was my 5th event, and I must say it was a night full of “Firsts” for this cat.

3 hours later, the irons were removed. I sat and pondered, as I watched a suspension scene, a flogging scene, fellow party goers showing off their toys, what am I to do next?  Flogging? No, not yet. Rope? Nah, don’t have the guts to ask. Then I saw her… another friend of mine, who is well known for her imagination, sadistic streak and skill with needle play. She had this surgical stapler in her toy box, that I have been curious as hell about, but afraid to try.  So I asked her, and she just grinned her beautiful hazel eyed smile.

Needless to say, I ended the evening with 16 staples and pretty yellow ribbon. I was pleasantly surprised, and loved the sensation. (especially one in each nipple allowing for my tassels) I left the staples & ribbon in for about an hour or more as I moved around the party. Relishing in each of my movements, as they tugged, pulled and strained my skin.

I am in no way a “pain slut” but this sensation and feeling of Saturday evening are ones that I will not soon forget. For those that know me, they know it was a big step for me. I gleefully claim that I crave more of these “sensations” as I move down this path. It makes me think and ponder this one question “Why did I wait so long?”

More to come for sure….

Meow

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DE let it be known that it was time for me to assert some authority. To answer that challenge I worked with my friend MindnBody to create the first set (in a long line) of rules DE will follow as my collared submissive/girl.

1.    Girl must trim pubic areas and shave below the neck (armpits, legs).
2.    Girl must wear a service collar at all times, unless taking a shower or otherwise directed.
3.    Girl must address all Masters/Mistresses as Sir or Ma’am, unless otherwise directed. It is best to ask prior to using a title.
4.    Girl must show respect at all times, both in action and verbally.
5.    Girl will always be honest, and answer any questions put before her as thoroughly as possible.
6.    Girl may not touch herself in a sexual manner without permission.
7.    Girl may not achieve orgasm without permission.
8.    All orders must be carried out in a timely manner.
9.    Girl will eat after I am served.
10.    Girl must ask to go to the bathroom.

DE was very resistant to Rule number 10, but eventually agreed. This is simply the first set to get her started…there are others coming.

And of course, there are tasks…stay tuned.

-Tutivillus

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