Collaborate in Kink

Wicked things are more fun when planned and executed by multiple evil minds. The brainstorms started when devious intentions combine, spark, gain momentum and feed off one another? They accelerate from mere storms to forces of dark nature in seconds.

Submissives and slaves whisper and glance fearfully. Their flesh and spirits yearning for the force of such unions to be released.

Such scenes and play recharge. They feed. Doldrums are often broken and transformed into raging seas where demons ride the waves laughing and screaming with joy.

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Negotiation and Terror

Creative Commons License photo credit: Masked Malayan

Creative Commons License photo credit: Masked Malayan

(Yes…I’m on a gas mask kick)

Terror Play.

If ever you plan on opening this door, remember that it starts during your initial negotiations with the sub/slave/etc.

Here’s an example of what I’m talking about.

I am a careful negotiator and I take my time. I use notebooks to document the conversation.

Likes, dislikes, limits (soft and hard), reactions…and that’s where the key to Terror Play lies.

You can learn more about a submissive by their reactions to a subject than you can by their words. If their skin flushes, their pupils react, their fingers twitch? If their bodies react involuntarily? You know you have something.

I write that down and mark it. After a few minutes I re-visit, gently probe that subject. I put a “T” next to it if there’s a possibility of Terror Play.

Later, if TP never pops on the Hard Limit list and isn’t a non-negotiated Soft Limit?

WHAM…that list comes out to play.

Just a little something for your Tuesday reading.

Thoughts? Sound off.

I’ve got a new Fetish, Group Play

I’ll be the first to admit.

Get me in a room with a couple of really sick and twisted Kinky folk. Lube the situation with some basic chatter and before the clock can roll more than five minutes devious things begin to happen.

It starts with simple talk. A basic skeleton forms, we throw tendon, muscle, skin at it. Soon it’s a breathing, living beast of evil intent. A group Scene is born!

Gather the victims, pull the supplies, make it happen. A chorus of screams is one of the most beautiful and satisfying things in my world. I love it. I start laughing wildly as I work – a maniacal smile cracking across my face.

Beautiful.

Synergy.

Momentum.

when the mall closes
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The Pleasure of Pain

An article to read in Psychology Today.

The Pleasure of PainFind out why one in 10 of us is into S&M.

A friend of mine (and fairly new submissive to the scene) contacted me and related a familiar tale of unfair woe.

A casual relationship ends, she lets it be known that she is kinky. Man freaks and begins the abuse, using the kink as a pivot for abuse (did we mention that he’s vanilla?)

A word folks.

We’re not broken. We’re actually fairly normal! We’re just honest with ourselves.

Next time anyone tries to abuse you because you’re in touch with your sexuality? Thank them, smile and walk away…forever.

Putting it All in Place

Something about regular Play Parties is the planning.

Considerations:

  • Am I DM’ing this time?
  • What have I seen that I really want to try.
  • Where should the bulk of my time be spent? As a spectator? As a player? Split?
  • Do I need to give attention to anyone?

Usually I spend a lot of time planning out various scenes. If I know I cannot do them myself I’ll arrange another person to work my sub with. If I lose interest in the scene, I’ll make sure to pass it on. If it looks like something that would be a better photo shoot, I’ll put it off as a Studio Scene.

Some scenes get me very excited. I know not all scenes will work with every sub, so I’ll immediately begin looking for “the right sub” as I’m planning the logistics. Since I tend to be very patient and negotiate thoroughly, I take my time finding the right submissive. I do tend to make my scenes somewhat extreme. I will not put someone in a situation that’s above their heads and above their thresholds; that combination is a bit too dangerous in dynamic environment.

Gather:

  • Supplies – What do I need that I don’t have?
  • Inspect – Are the supplies I have in good shape and clean?
  • Knowledge/Experience – Do I know enough to pull this off? Am I confident? What does my gut tell me?
  • I know enough people in this Lifestyle to just ask. If I don’t know something or if I am hesitant…I ask and learn. I will not put my sub or myself in danger because of ego.
  • Help – Again, if I need help in any way…I ask.

Location is not a problem, neither is equipment…but never take it for granted. Inspect you play area – every time!

I try to maintain open communications with all parties as the scene approaches. We plan, we add, we take away, we communicate! It all enhances the experience. It is awesome and it makes a wonderful energy.

Sometimes all of this takes place in minutes…mere minutes (with the exception of Negotiation – that takes longer).

What do some of you put together when planning scenes?

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