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Topic 1: The psychology of terror play.
Fear is divided into two stages, biochemical and emotional. The biochemical response is universal, while the emotional response is highly individualized.
http://www.lutz-sanfilippo.com/library/counseling/lsffear.html

Topic 2: Role with it, baby!
Is there more to your role than just your title?

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(Yes…I’m on a gas mask kick)

Terror Play.

If ever you plan on opening this door, remember that it starts during your initial negotiations with the sub/slave/etc.

Here’s an example of what I’m talking about.

I am a careful negotiator and I take my time. I use notebooks to document the conversation.

Likes, dislikes, limits (soft and hard), reactions…and that’s where the key to Terror Play lies.

You can learn more about a submissive by their reactions to a subject than you can by their words. If their skin flushes, their pupils react, their fingers twitch? If their bodies react involuntarily? You know you have something.

I write that down and mark it. After a few minutes I re-visit, gently probe that subject. I put a “T” next to it if there’s a possibility of Terror Play.

Later, if TP never pops on the Hard Limit list and isn’t a non-negotiated Soft Limit?

WHAM…that list comes out to play.

Just a little something for your Tuesday reading.

Thoughts? Sound off.

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The very first play party I attended was in a community house. Each room had been converted into an encapsulated playspace.

Terror play, needle play, flogging, rigging, fisting, sounds, electical play, knife play…. From Thud to Snap to Edge it was there and I was in overdrive.

The scene that I remember most was done on a bed suspended from the ceiling. The sub had at least a hundred needles running through his body. Each needle was carefully tied with delicate line which was fastened to various points above the bed. The needle portion alone was hypnotic, but I laughed aloud when the sadistic fun really started.

The Domme gently began swinging the bed back and forth, each line pulled on each needle.

The sub groaned – deep, low, long. Skin pulled along his frame as the bed tensioned various bits.

Scenes like those make impressions. They define. They make us either run or grin.

This one made me think, drove me to learn and propelled me forward.

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